From my 2 months member here at the dating site! I notice that many young handsome requesting for friendship and i am glad of it that many of the old members wants to be friend with me. Later i was been very much disappointed of the manner they show. To be specific they want to be friend, they say i like you i fell in love with you the first time i saw your picture and your profile pls!!! accept me!. is that easy you love a person to a stranger? I told to a one young man age 22 i think you are looking for something and i am not the woman you are looking for. Some of them are requesting for you to cooperate with their job because they need a job. I do not know what kind of job they are trying to say i couldnt understand the way they explain. This guys belongs to a one country never to mention for not to generalize. Maybe some of the ladies here have the same experience. Through this forum i would like say i am very much sorry to all guys belongs to that country for i am no longer replying to any one of them. Treat a woman in a nice way and the woman will treat you in the same way

Funny that you mentioned that.. A lot of people seem to have a problem with me being single. I honestly don't understand why. My profile clearly states FRIENDSHIP..

Welcome, bienvenido(a), bienvenue to mingle2. Join the forums and get to know people!

Some people are here for questionable reasons. You will be able to spot them a mile away. Report them, and block them at the end of the reporting.

If they profess their "love" on the first email, because they "can't help myself" that's questionable at best.

If you want to meet real people, come to the forums and contribute. You will get to know a lot of good real people. Not all, but a lot! lol

i am very surprised that both of you attractive ladies haven't received the requests for your nude pics yet....

Aida. what country are you referring to? I am not sure what they maybe be looking/searching for but you are within all your rights to reject advances from anyone who claims to love at first encounter

It was my beloved country asians but not to mention the country

Good, I got it... I enjoy the forum community

Treat a women right and she will be loyal....

i've been getting messages like that too from different countries.. sometimes you'll see it on their profile too, if you don't see anything on it at all then better ignore it.. or worst case scenario, if they are rude or being too much, better use the block button, it works!

Quite a few women seem to like "bad boys". Playing the straight guy doesn't always work for everyone. Some people seem to like chaos, fighting, drama, etc...

Quite a few people who contact you are probably scammers also. Friendship probably doesn't work as well for scamming. Throwing people in woo/love land probably makes it easier.

Actually we would like to encourage everyone who experiences this to report them, and block them at the end of the reporting. You will be helping everyone in the mingle2 community! Thanks!

I realy feel your pain,its realy sad when you've already stated "friendship",i.never want to see women get disrespected in know kind of way, but not all guys that say they love /like ect means bad,some just dont know how to talk to a woman and half the times a decent woman WOULD say friendship ,as means as getting to know each orher first and see where it goes from there.And i wish it was true when you said "treat a woman right and she will treat you right ect,sad to say but that aint completely true ,you treat SOME women right and they take it for granted,same with some guys!!

Unfortunately, as man, I have the same experience with the ladies... I have met quite a few 'ladies' who seem to be genuine and all of a sudden ask me for money. And I don't send that, of course. But you think you found someone nice and they turn out to be golddigges. I hate that. I block them right away...
But fortunatley there are also enough real ladies to keep on trying until you find the right one. I think I found (the) one by now...

That is true...9 times out of 10.
With those odds, how did I go wrong?

Chchchchch...poor ladies, ohh come on....open up ur eyes, it is better to wear shoes rather then thinking of carpeting the whole world :)

because not all women appreciate what they have until its too late.

I would say the odds are wrong here. In my humble opinion I think the odds are more like 50/50. I have seen women abuse the kindest, sweetest, most wonderful men because they were lacking in manners, or came from an abusive household where they had no good role models, or they were totally into themselves and without anything or anyone who truly mattered to them because they were totally egocentric, or because they were alcoholics or drug addicted, or just full of anger within. I've seen the like in men as well...I believe it is not specific to gender. When you find a man or a woman who actually does treat you right you've found someone truly special.