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I think there are some very narcissistic people who suppose anything posted is about them. when someone's opinion differs from their own, they feel offended and claim to be stalked. there are also those who make themselves appear promiscuous and inviting, then publicly complain that the opposite gender is stalking them. it might be wise to consider how they present themselves. we are all adults commenting on open, public topics. it means there will be variety of opinion because we aren't clones of each other Im Sure Your Right To A Degree.. But That Is Just Forums ,In general.. Im Not Talking About Disagreements Or Elementry School Shenanagins.. im Addressing ,Being Stalked Phone Posted,address posted,Location posted Posting Things To Discredit A persons Character.. To The Point You Block Them everywhere..But They Cant Respect The Blocks,,And Continue By Other Means.. That Dream ,,Is Clearly Stalking!! |
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Wed 08/06/14 05:12 PM
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I think there are some very narcissistic people who suppose anything posted is about them. when someone's opinion differs from their own, they feel offended and claim to be stalked. there are also those who make themselves appear promiscuous and inviting, then publicly complain that the opposite gender is stalking them. it might be wise to consider how they present themselves. we are all adults commenting on open, public topics. it means there will be variety of opinion because we aren't clones of each other Im Sure Your Right To A Degree.. But That Is Just Forums ,In general.. Im Not Talking About Disagreements Or Elementry School Shenanagins.. im Addressing ,Being Stalked Phone Posted,address posted,Location posted Posting Things To Discredit A persons Character.. To The Point You Block Them everywhere..But They Cant Respect The Blocks,,And Continue By Other Means.. That Dream ,,Is Clearly Stalking!! sparks ...try and find out who and where they may be and then call the authorities ...copy their posts and mails... I know how easy it can be for trolls ... remember ... 
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Ahhh,,
Mystic... I Just Try To Move Forward... Normal People Dont do That Crap.. Old Saying"pity the fool" I Honesty Believe It Reflects On Them.. Ill Just Be Me... |
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Same old, same old. Everyone talking about me me me. Why can't some stalk me for a change.
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Only joking ladies this is a serious issue. People should understand that if someone does not respond to a message they are not interested. You should be able to report people and get them banned too.
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But there is an expectation of decency that should be practiced in real life and on the internet.... Too many people are miserable and they take it out on others... This |
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Simple, I just ignore them then block them as my last option.
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Not only women get stalk. And Riza's right!
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From my own personal experiences, with 12yrs of online chatting experience on numerous sites...including Uniform Professional connection sites. I have had a few daunting experiences within past 12 months with: few impersonating Military & Police officers, trying to scheme & scam for money & electrical goods. One with claims of Army Officer after 2nd email, demanding me to cease being on the website...as I'm an independent rebellious individual, he stalked me on the site & emailed me of his displeasure of still seeing me online...to me if he was legitimate he would be controlling in a relationship & reported him as a potential stalker with possibly also including being a schemer & scammer. With having experience with a real life stalker of a girl my youngest son dated...she stalked him for 3yrs & filed false weapons & domestic violence charges against him, including she was stupid enough to stalk one of the State prisons he was being held at awaiting his 2nd trial. With having evidence of her breaking into my home while we were sleeping...the Police disregarded the evidence & he spent approx 3 months wrongfully imprisoned awaiting 2 trials. After 3 long years, I myself had gathered enough evidence to acquit him at both trials. The anxiety & stress levels are extremely high under those circumstances...with myself being born & raised in a Military & Medical family, including I have some training in Martial Arts, Boxing, Kickboxing & some training in swords & daggers...has the potential of fatal consequences, due to mistaken identity.
SAFETY TIPS: (1) Remain contact via the site's email system as long as possible, as it's easier for the Administrators to monitor the logs. (2) Always use an Alias email address & messenger screennames for off-site contact. (3) Always use a disposable pre-paid cellphone, for phone contact. (4) Restrict photo & file sharing, to reduce risk of being keylogged & creation of fake profiles. (5) Use intuition & instincts, if something doesn't feel right or projects a guarded feeling...GO WITH IT! (6) Use block features for unwanted contact & always report to site Administrators of potential schemers & scammers...localised stalking & threats to both site Administrators & Local Authorities. (7) Never post or share pics of Children, your home or residential neighbourhood...prevention of Paedophile access & Hostile Stalking. (8) Always use Logic & Common Sense when interacting with others. Wishes all to Stay Safe. |
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Ahhh,, Mystic... I Just Try To Move Forward... Normal People Dont do That Crap.. Old Saying"pity the fool" I Honesty Believe It Reflects On Them.. Ill Just Be Me... Sparks just be careful though.. it is nothing to be taken lightly sweetie. there are some really sick people out there. i will keep u in my thoughts cause i had an ex who did that and until my bf had taken care of it, it was getting scarier. i hated looking over my shoulder. it was too the point he was outside my bedroom windows at nights. please be careful 
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Ahhh,, Mystic... I Just Try To Move Forward... Normal People Dont do That Crap.. Old Saying"pity the fool" I Honesty Believe It Reflects On Them.. Ill Just Be Me... Sparks just be careful though.. it is nothing to be taken lightly sweetie. there are some really sick people out there. i will keep u in my thoughts cause i had an ex who did that and until my bf had taken care of it, it was getting scarier. i hated looking over my shoulder. it was too the point he was outside my bedroom windows at nights. please be careful
Thanks ,believe me I've taken proper steps... Bought a new case of shells |
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From my own personal experiences, with 12yrs of online chatting experience on numerous sites...including Uniform Professional connection sites. I have had a few daunting experiences within past 12 months with: few impersonating Military & Police officers, trying to scheme & scam for money & electrical goods. One with claims of Army Officer after 2nd email, demanding me to cease being on the website...as I'm an independent rebellious individual, he stalked me on the site & emailed me of his displeasure of still seeing me online...to me if he was legitimate he would be controlling in a relationship & reported him as a potential stalker with possibly also including being a schemer & scammer. With having experience with a real life stalker of a girl my youngest son dated...she stalked him for 3yrs & filed false weapons & domestic violence charges against him, including she was stupid enough to stalk one of the State prisons he was being held at awaiting his 2nd trial. With having evidence of her breaking into my home while we were sleeping...the Police disregarded the evidence & he spent approx 3 months wrongfully imprisoned awaiting 2 trials. After 3 long years, I myself had gathered enough evidence to acquit him at both trials. The anxiety & stress levels are extremely high under those circumstances...with myself being born & raised in a Military & Medical family, including I have some training in Martial Arts, Boxing, Kickboxing & some training in swords & daggers...has the potential of fatal consequences, due to mistaken identity. SAFETY TIPS: (1) Remain contact via the site's email system as long as possible, as it's easier for the Administrators to monitor the logs. (2) Always use an Alias email address & messenger screennames for off-site contact. (3) Always use a disposable pre-paid cellphone, for phone contact. (4) Restrict photo & file sharing, to reduce risk of being keylogged & creation of fake profiles. (5) Use intuition & instincts, if something doesn't feel right or projects a guarded feeling...GO WITH IT! (6) Use block features for unwanted contact & always report to site Administrators of potential schemers & scammers...localised stalking & threats to both site Administrators & Local Authorities. (7) Never post or share pics of Children, your home or residential neighbourhood...prevention of Paedophile access & Hostile Stalking. (8) Always use Logic & Common Sense when interacting with others. Wishes all to Stay Safe. Excellent Post,, Hope every woman here reads it, As well as then men.. Two movies come to mind Misery And,Fatal Attraction |
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Again today....
I'm getting quite annoyed at this point... |
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Cyber stalked on this site (aggressively) at least two times. Girls create accounts and try to friend the people that I usually have any type of discourse with. Outside of this site, more than that. I've been stalked in real life.
"That's the thing about Narcissus, it's not that he's so ~~~~ing in love with himself, because he isn't at all, he ~~~~ing hates himself. It's that without that reflection looking back at him... he doesn't exist." - Alan Ball |
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ive decided Its Pure Insanity...
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infatuation is great, jealousy sucks. we all have our moments of stupidity but my belief is you have to have trust and stay true and it doesnt matter who you talk too, flirt with (certain extent if a couple) its who is in your heart and thoughts at the end of the day. that should be enough in a relationship. jealousy and trust issues is on the person that doesnt trust and is jealous, not on the other person. it is a red flag in a relationship and unless that person learns how to work with their partner, the relationship is doomed.
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I don't think stalking is about infatuation or jealousy Sparks...I think the reasons people stalk have very little to do with the person they are stalking...I think it's mostly due to their psychological problems....Narcissism, sociopathy, low self esteem, anger, and control are some of the most obvious reasons...
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I don't think stalking is about infatuation or jealousy Sparks...I think the reasons people stalk have very little to do with the person they are stalking...I think it's mostly due to their psychological problems....Narcissism, sociopathy, low self esteem, anger, and control are some of the most obvious reasons... Leigh is right. Stalkers are not right in the head. Infatuation and jealousy are normal emotions that most people have. Stalking is not normal. |
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