When the man is falling for someone other than his girlfriend but couldn't tell the woman straight to her face that he want a break up, what possibly is his reason not to tell the truth? and when the woman asked him if he still loved her he would just say "I still care for you", what does he mean by that?

men are very sensitive to women's feelings. when a man cheats on a woman it's because he can't bear to hurt her by telling her that she can not satisfy him. he could be a jerk and break up with her, but he would rather bear the burden of being in a relationship that he doesn't want to be in but his woman thinks is her whole world. how wonderful men are to be so considerate to women

ohkay, i was trying to type all that with a straight face. really, men can be selfish cowards at times. some men need to grow up, but will use one or more women in the process. by saying " i still care for you" a man is being a sleaze bag by trying to keep your heart in his hands while searching for someone he thinks could be better than you are. it may be difficult for you, but for your own good, RUN. get away from this type of guy as fast as you can. there are grown men waiting patiently for a woman such as yourself. godspeed, bulldog

so that means he did not really loved and cared for the woman at all? he just used the woman for some reason? ouch!!!!

@ first paragraph!

2nd paragraph is dead on! Being I just went through something similar! Get out of the relationship. The way I see it he shouldn't be fraternizing with another women in the first place. "I still care foryou" really means : I still want you with no commitment, so I can go try screwing around with other women but still have you when I can't get them.

The guy's a jerk. He's cheating on you. Dump him and move on.

Men and women really people in general are selfish creatures.they for the most part only care about what serves them best at the time.that's not to say that all people are that way.the secret is to find that person who can be everything you need in your life and can fully commit to you.I'm deeply sorry for your pain.If you ever need to talk feel free to pm me anytime

I agree with bulldog....
. but if I might add...
and this has just occurred to me..
how we as men were taught at a young age, do not hurt women do not hit women... perhaps this plays. into some of it.. we simply do not know how to hurt u without hurting you... I know but it's just a thought.