Hi all, my name is Dave, and I was widowed 10 months ago. Life is pretty difficult after losing a loved one, I'm 61 an ex soldier. Not the old fart boring type!! I'm looking for a bit of love and affection and I think there must be plenty of you in the same position. So Here I am. I live in Liverpool, am a non smoker, casual drinker and my log in name is swiftandbold.(view my profile) I have children but they are all adults now sometimes my Grand children stay over at my house, both girls and aged 13 & 15. Their bed room is a tip when they are here but I love the bones of them. I'm not looking for long distance romance, So if your too far away, that's a problem! I would rather see someone twice a week than twice a year. I suppose that's me in a nutshell.

Sorry for your loss, and Welcome :-)
The sex only might be a hard sell.
Best of luck :-)

I don't get the "sex only" reference, I'm looking for a possible relationship, or at least I think I am? It's probably too soon for me to know what I truly want! But I think I have to dip my toe in the water at some point! This is that point!!

I think Soufie meant you are looking for an intimate encounter, in other words, sex only. It may help if you change that.

Anyway, it's hard to offer words for a loss so overwhelming but I wish you well.

Thanks Funky!!

Indeed, your profile says you seek an intimate encounter.

Oh! I will have to change that when I figure it out! Thanks...

Managed to change my status to dating, I hope that's a better option.