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Topic: what would you do?
dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sat 07/12/14 11:45 PM
Hey everyone, It occurred to me that we all talk a good one and offer advice on how to meet people and talk to people (the blind leading the blind?), but what would you really do if someone came up to you and tried to start a conversation? Would you shrug them off and go about your business? Talk and get to know them? Try to be polite and invent an excuse to leave?

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Sat 07/12/14 11:56 PM
Hey everyone, It occurred to me that we all talk a good one and offer advice on how to meet people and talk to people (the blind leading the blind?), but what would you really do if someone came up to you and tried to start a conversation? Would you shrug them off and go about your business? Talk and get to know them? Try to be polite and invent an excuse to leave? ooh come on ANA you no that there is a lot to consider,I can talk to any buddy,butt if i like them i get a little shy,

cha7385 Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 3782	Sat 07/12/14 11:59 PM
Depends on the approach and how he starts the conversation... if my instinct would tell that he'll be a good catch then would definitely give a chance to reciprocate and be interested in getting to know him..

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 664	Sun 07/13/14 12:00 AM
In person I'm polite to everyone , I see nobody as below me or above me ,I stay and talk till the talking is done I want them to know they have my full attention. Here on mingle I can't say ive always been the best , but I know my heart and I'm still a good person.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 07/13/14 12:01 AM Edited by dreamerana on Sun 07/13/14 12:03 AM
Hey everyone, It occurred to me that we all talk a good one and offer advice on how to meet people and talk to people (the blind leading the blind?), but what would you really do if someone came up to you and tried to start a conversation? Would you shrug them off and go about your business? Talk and get to know them? Try to be polite and invent an excuse to leave? ooh come on ANA you no that there is a lot to consider,I can talk to any buddy,butt if i like them i get a little shy, I don't make you shy. Pretend you are talking to me. Besides, you being in the racing scene, don't you get ladies tryin to talk to you all the time?

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Sun 07/13/14 12:08 AM
Hey everyone, It occurred to me that we all talk a good one and offer advice on how to meet people and talk to people (the blind leading the blind?), but what would you really do if someone came up to you and tried to start a conversation? Would you shrug them off and go about your business? Talk and get to know them? Try to be polite and invent an excuse to leave? ooh come on ANA you no that there is a lot to consider,I can talk to any buddy,butt if i like them i get a little shy, I don't make you shy. Pretend you are talking to me. your so nice,you makes it easy,butt yes iam shy around good looking woman, hate it,

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 07/13/14 12:15 AM
In person I'm polite to everyone , I see nobody as below me or above me ,I stay and talk till the talking is done I want them to know they have my full attention. Here on mingle I can't say ive always been the best , but I know my heart and I'm still a good person. I believe you are a good person and my question is not for anyone to be judged. I just realized I didn't answer my own question. I'm in between Cha and Lowrange on this. It depends on the situation and the safety of the environment, but in general I would talk to that person and be nice.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 07/13/14 12:17 AM
Hey everyone, It occurred to me that we all talk a good one and offer advice on how to meet people and talk to people (the blind leading the blind?), but what would you really do if someone came up to you and tried to start a conversation? Would you shrug them off and go about your business? Talk and get to know them? Try to be polite and invent an excuse to leave? ooh come on ANA you no that there is a lot to consider,I can talk to any buddy,butt if i like them i get a little shy, I don't make you shy. Pretend you are talking to me. your so nice,you makes it easy,butt yes iam shy around good looking woman, hate it, Awww. That's nice. Thank you.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Sun 07/13/14 12:59 AM
Hey everyone, It occurred to me that we all talk a good one and offer advice on how to meet people and talk to people (the blind leading the blind?), but what would you really do if someone came up to you and tried to start a conversation? Would you shrug them off and go about your business? Talk and get to know them? Try to be polite and invent an excuse to leave? Let's be honest. How beautiful is this person?

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sun 07/13/14 01:11 AM
I would talk to them, I might learn something new or maybe meet someone nice.

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Sun 07/13/14 01:21 AM
i enjoy talking with anyone i might happen to meet during the course of my day...its easiest when they're the one to strike up conversation first....now, if she just so happens to be an attractive woman...well that's just icing on the cake....and depending on how the conversation flows, i may be tempted to ask for her phone# or offer mine....

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Sun 07/13/14 03:12 AM
I'm with nascar on this I'm a real talker, I can talk to someone I like but the minute I know he likes me my shyness kicks in and I clam up. But then once he gets me talking watch out

truthreigns Joined Fri 03/28/14 Posts: 48	Sun 07/13/14 05:19 AM
Hey everyone, It occurred to me that we all talk a good one and offer advice on how to meet people and talk to people (the blind leading the blind?), but what would you really do if someone came up to you and tried to start a conversation? Would you shrug them off and go about your business? Talk and get to know them? Try to be polite and invent an excuse to leave? it depends on if im busy at that paticular time, if you are speaking of contact with the opposite sex that might lead to courtship or marriage and i think you are, it depends also if i am interested in that woman and it is easier to show interest to a woman online because i know nothing about her because in real life for me, when im approached by the girl who is known for her "getting around" i have shrugged quite a few of them off!

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 07/14/14 12:08 PM
Hi everyone, I read all of your responses and was glad to hear from everyone. Here's the reason I asked the question. I've been noticing that many of us seem to seek people from all over the world. Yet, we may be ignoring a great person within our own surroundings. Just something that has caught my attention in recent days. Wishing everyone a happy day.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Mon 07/14/14 12:38 PM
I'd be polite and converse. I ain't got no airs or uppitiness in my whole body. If there was no animal attraction I wouldn't attempt to take it past acquaintances or friends.

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Mon 07/14/14 12:49 PM
I would talk to them, no reason not to. Never know what could come of a few words.

blubudha Joined Mon 07/14/14 Posts: 3	Mon 07/14/14 01:05 PM
Depend on mood and person who wants to talk. Mostly love to talk with everyone.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Mon 07/14/14 01:08 PM
I'm quite chatty anyway so I'd probably stay and chat

luvmeforlife Joined Wed 11/06/13 Posts: 700	Mon 07/14/14 01:16 PM
Depends on the place in time. I have a bad habit of doing my own thing, getting it done and going. But if it was a bar or something where we were just lounging around I'd try to be social.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 07/14/14 02:07 PM
Depends on if I am in the mood to talk.