Can a woman (significant other) handle her man with a substantial amount
of lady friends?

I have no problems with my other half having friends either male or
females as I would not get serious with him if I didnt trust him, But
there is a fine line if he went to his female friends for comfort (not
talking about sex) more then me. Then I knew something was missing from
the relationship and it might be time to move on.

Good point.

Any women that is secure with herself would be able to handle it without
a problem. But can a man?

It's definitely harder for a man because we know what men do!!

Shagna, without communicating how you feel, you will leave? What about
in a sexual way?

Seriously, I think the friends have to be known on both parties involved
no undercover friends...

We know what women do. Then again it all comes down to trusting that
person

Yes I would communicate my feelings with him, I dont think it would be
right just to up and leave. I also would not stay if the relationship is
not working though.

Absolutely....

Of course if you don't have nothing to hide why not introduce that
person to your significant other. It will make her more comfortable with
the situation or if she is not secure she will become jealous
(especially if she look better).

no
some yes but a substantial amount,
no
what will he be looking for in other females
maybe what Im not giving him.
is ok to have females friends but like I said
a substantial amount hummmmmmmmm!!! don't think so

but that is just my feelings.

A woman has to be secure with herself to accept this but, I don't see it
happening with out some sort of regulation or stipulation.

that's for sureeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!

It can happen but you know it will have regulations

Why? Can a women not believe her man when he uses the infamous phrase
that we're just friends.....

me and my ex always had that conversation: can a man and woman be truly
just friends. and strangely enuf i wud say yes, i think they cud if the
boundaries r set. he said no, some1 eventually gets feelins, even if the
other doesnt. ironically tho, he always had female friends. his
justification of it was that they were friends b4 i was in the picture
so "That's different" he wud always say. there was always an exception
when it came to him, but bottom line for me. maybe b/c we started out
"just friends" while i was with someone but i broke the relatioship to
be with him. i wasnt insecure w/the females; i was uncomfortable w/the
past i didnt know. and when it came to it that he'd talk to THEM about
OUR problems, yeh that pissed me off! but thats not insecurity, thats
called disrespect and lack of privacy-- i dont care HOW far yall go back

Yes, but when you use that excuse ALOT thats a problem. That means he
is spending to much time focused on the friend or friends, his women
should come first then the friend/s. Take care of home first

tell him girl

I agree completely!