Topic: sending mail
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Tue 07/08/14 06:01 PM
I am new to this site. Everytime I try to send or reply to a message I get a drop down that says I have to enter the code in my email to verify my email. I did that. and i get a message that it has been verified, but the same thing happens every time I try to send a message, can someone tell me how to send messages?

soufiehere's photo
Tue 07/08/14 07:16 PM
I am posting this because it seems every time someone
says they have verified their email, it turns out
they have not:

Send an email as directed below:

"For anybody that has checked their spam folder to no avail,
please send an email from your registered email address
to the following address:

m2.support@nextc.com

Give your message "verification" for its title."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
So, you would go to whatever email you have listed here:
http://mingle2.com/inbox/mail_settings
and send an email to: m2.support@nextc.com
with "verification" as the subject.

They will take it from there :-)

loveless3's photo
Thu 07/10/14 02:17 PM
hello.i send message ,but say you have reached your mail for today.i though here 100/100 free. also i try after night send message and again say you have limit for today

soufiehere's photo
Thu 07/10/14 02:19 PM

hello.i send message ,but say you have reached your mail for today.i though here 100/100 free. also i try after night send message and again say you have limit for today

Why did I encounter an email limit?
'We had to place a limit on first-contact emails because
of spammers. Basically, this cuts down the number of
first-contact emails that one can send within a
two-to-three-day period (we can't divulge anymore
information about this limit). However, a member
affected by this limit will still be able to send an
unlimited number of emails to those with whom he or
she has already had some back-and-forth. It should
be noted that MinglePlus members are exempt.'
http://mingle2.com/welcome/faq_message

There is also another message limitation..if the emails exceed
a certain number and within a timeframe. This ones cures in minutes.

wxmann's photo
Thu 07/10/14 04:11 PM
I tried to send a message to someone, I was redirected and what you see below is what was on my entire screen. Why did I get this??

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soufiehere's photo
Thu 07/10/14 04:15 PM
That is, of course, the HTML version of the page.
If you clicked on 'View' in your headings and then 'Source'
on the dropdown menu, that is what would pop up..the
'source' of the page.

Therefore, it does look like it could be on your end, the
inability to read the HTML.

Has it happened more than the once wxmann?