Topic: Open
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Wed 06/25/14 09:26 PM

Could mean a couple things I can think of.

Open as in available to date.
Open sexually etc



agree, this particular man, I do think he meant what you are saying :)

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Wed 06/25/14 09:48 PM
Whoa this guy is thirsty. bigsmile

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Wed 06/25/14 09:55 PM

Whoa this guy is thirsty. bigsmile


I think he had a couple drinks before he got to me.....huh

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Wed 06/25/14 10:54 PM
His English grammar is lacking?glasses

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Thu 06/26/14 01:19 AM
W/o specifics it's difficult to say what he personally meant.

But as a general rule when someone asks if another is "open" they are referring to the opposite of closed... I think.

Open for business
Open minded
Open for anything

It's a direct way to cut to the chase... I think.

And the only way to find out how open he expects or wants you to be would be to ask him before closing the door in his face if what he says is not to your liking.

Duttoneer's photo
Thu 06/26/14 01:20 AM
First thing, check you're clothing has not become unzipped and if it hasn't then this is some other slang expression, it could mean are you open to suggestions which could be anything?

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Thu 06/26/14 07:10 AM

First thing, check you're clothing has not become unzipped and if it hasn't then this is some other slang expression, it could mean are you open to suggestions which could be anything?
laugh probably good advice

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Thu 06/26/14 07:11 AM

W/o specifics it's difficult to say what he personally meant.

But as a general rule when someone asks if another is "open" they are referring to the opposite of closed... I think.

Open for business
Open minded
Open for anything

It's a direct way to cut to the chase... I think.

And the only way to find out how open he expects or wants you to be would be to ask him before closing the door in his face if what he says is not to your liking.



makes sense. I especially like what you are saying about it being a way to cut to the chase....that reflects my impression of him at the time tyflowerforyou

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Thu 06/26/14 07:51 AM
Err open-minded could mean anything.

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Thu 06/26/14 07:44 PM

Err open-minded could mean anything.


well he didn't ask if I was open minded, just "are you open?"

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Thu 06/26/14 07:52 PM


Could mean a couple things I can think of.

Open as in available to date.
Open sexually etc



agree, this particular man, I do think he meant what you are saying :)


wait a minute....what's ecetera (etc)?spock

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 06/26/14 08:50 PM


Err open-minded could mean anything.


well he didn't ask if I was open minded, just "are you open?"


This is some weird European humor I'm not supposed to understand then.

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Thu 06/26/14 08:51 PM



Err open-minded could mean anything.


well he didn't ask if I was open minded, just "are you open?"


This is some weird European humor I'm not supposed to understand then.

I thought it sounded like a con

Goofball73's photo
Thu 06/26/14 08:59 PM

His English grammar is lacking?glasses


Blame text speak. laugh

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Thu 06/26/14 09:14 PM


His English grammar is lacking?glasses


Blame text speak. laugh


Oh no, it was a voice conversation :)

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Thu 06/26/14 09:52 PM
I like that we're learning facts as we go. laugh

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 06/26/14 10:17 PM
Edited by ShyandBlue on Thu 06/26/14 10:46 PM
if a guy asks you if you're "open" you go and ask him exactly what was it that he meant, you don't go and open a new thread just to find out from others what he meant

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Thu 06/26/14 10:31 PM
it could also mean in a 'naughty' way,

he may have a particular 'thing' he want's to try/do but before he even asked wants to know if you'd maybe entertain something 'outside the norm'

but that's just one possibility

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Thu 06/26/14 11:02 PM


if a guy asks you if you're "open" you go and ask him exactly what was it that he meant, you don't go and open a new thread just to find out from others what he meant
proceed with caution .. The last time a guy asked me if he could ask me an open question .. He told me he was a toilet slave and then proceeded to tell me what his ex still makes him do . I will never look at a toilet the same way .. Lmao


haha lets open up a thread about toilets maybe LOL

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Thu 06/26/14 11:33 PM
isn't it what everyone is asking like in almost every profile?
every one wants to laugh :wink: