Topic: What Do You Think About Harmless Flirting
smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:18 PM

Flirting is an art some people have it and some people don't.....


You flirt ...lol

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Wed 06/25/14 07:19 PM

If I was in a relationship of any kind,, I wouldn't be flirting. ....
I do believe the person your with shouldn't feel unease in any way...

Harmless Flirting is different. ..



:thumbsup: agreed

carteblanc's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:21 PM

If I was in a relationship of any kind,, I wouldn't be flirting. ....
I do believe the person your with shouldn't feel unease in any way...

Harmless Flirting is different. ..



I believed so(relieved)..
Then what's there to be hesitant about it? :smile:

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:23 PM
As I said earlier. .....
If i was in a relationship I wouldn't flirt..

I wasn't expanding original post. ..

I see light flirting as harmless. ..
Not like I'm going to throw him down and have my way with the man...lol

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Wed 06/25/14 07:25 PM

As I said earlier. .....
If i was in a relationship I wouldn't flirt..

I wasn't expanding original post. ..

I see light flirting as harmless. ..
Not like I'm going to throw him down and have my way with the man...lol



ya that's what they all say:wink: laugh

0ldhag's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:26 PM
I totally misread your post. I thought it regarded casual FLINGS, so I change my answer.

If in a relationship, I don't flirt..if single, I flirt a lot.

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:28 PM


If I was in a relationship of any kind,, I wouldn't be flirting. ....
I do believe the person your with shouldn't feel unease in any way...

Harmless Flirting is different. ..



I believed so(relieved)..
Then what's there to be hesitant about it? :smile:



I rarely hesitate about anything. ..
I'm a pretty straightforward person..
Go after what I want in life...and usually achieve what I set out to do..
I'm not one to play games,, with words...or people. ...


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Wed 06/25/14 07:29 PM



If I was in a relationship of any kind,, I wouldn't be flirting. ....
I do believe the person your with shouldn't feel unease in any way...

Harmless Flirting is different. ..



I believed so(relieved)..
Then what's there to be hesitant about it? :smile:



I rarely hesitate about anything. ..
I'm a pretty straightforward person..
Go after what I want in life...and usually achieve what I set out to do..
I'm not one to play games,, with words...or people. ...


:thumbsup:

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:32 PM
And I certainly wouldn't flirt with someone that was with someone, ,...
I've never dated a freinds ex..
Never would. ..
Thought that was in the women's code...
Lol

Goofball73's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:44 PM
Ahhh flirting. Some people have the ability to be Rico Suave, while others are more like Gilligan. laugh

sparkyae5's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:48 PM
'' a woman flirts, a guy pursues '':thumbsup:

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Wed 06/25/14 08:37 PM


Flirting is an art some people have it and some people don't.....


You flirt ...lol


That's right boo......smitten

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Thu 06/26/14 01:39 AM


What do you think about harmless flirting?

I feel there's no harm to it. .

And may put a smile on some ones face
If they are having a lonely day..

Am I Wrong? ?




There's no harm in flirting if you can master the techniques... laugh



Jeez... who knew there is so much to learn about flirting... :wink:



That's right... there's no harm in flirting... winking

mikey5360's photo
Thu 06/26/14 02:02 AM
Flirting??embarassed embarassed

smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 06/26/14 03:12 AM

Once he is mine .. Then the real flirting begins


Very True!!!!:heart:

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Thu 06/26/14 06:32 AM
Flirting is fun until the other parties get insecure....it always happens.'.

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:25 AM
I think flirting is ok, whether in a relationship or not, of course when you are in a relationship there is a line that shouldn't be crossed, but each person in the relationship should define where that is, and adhere to each others boundaries.

Plus if you practice flirting with others outside of the relationship, it helps you flirt better with your partner, except you obviously don't have any boundaries then :smile:


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Thu 06/26/14 10:20 AM
Call me a tease but


smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 06/26/14 10:34 AM

when two people are in a relationship, the feelings of BOTH people are defining what that relationship is so both people have to agree on what harms the relationship. One person cant say its harmless if the other person thinks it is harmful...because if they think it is, then it is.

In other words...depends on what your partner thinks.

omg I just said what dede said...so, agreed.



But If Your In Any Type Of Relationship...
Flirting With Others Shouldnt Be happening..

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 06/26/14 11:45 AM
Edited by isaac_dede on Thu 06/26/14 11:48 AM


when two people are in a relationship, the feelings of BOTH people are defining what that relationship is so both people have to agree on what harms the relationship. One person cant say its harmless if the other person thinks it is harmful...because if they think it is, then it is.

In other words...depends on what your partner thinks.

omg I just said what dede said...so, agreed.



But If Your In Any Type Of Relationship...
Flirting With Others Shouldnt Be happening..


I think it depends on what that particular person's definition of flirting is, some think flirting is simply smiling at the other sex, some think it is light banter, some think it is anything that involves actual physical contact, i.e. dancing/lap sitting/etc...

of course there are distinctions and lines drawn at each and the lines are different for each individual,

i draw the line at lap sitting personally, but i have no problem if i'm out at a bar or club and my girlfriend get's asked to dance, she can dance, i don't have a problem, as long as they aren't sneaking away, she knows this.

I will add a caveat though

Continous flirting with the same individual over a sustained long period is a no-no that may just lead to deeper feelings,

But i see nothing wrong with casual flirting