it maybe just me, but the mutual match isn't exactly working too great, and I respect the jsh effort, but it needs some maintenance or better explaining in how to use it. When I go there it says no one, but i get email saying there is someone interested! Sooo annoying of late lol.

i agree or at least show them in the who viewed me part.

I don't think mine has ever worked.... shrugs...

Andy...

It happened to me this morning, it seems to be happening to quite a few people. You are not alone, believe me...

i agree
or you will have all these matches and they never write or when you write they send one reply back.
so you delete hem and start over.
hmmmmmmm

I agree... Just e-mail if you want to meet a person and talk.
I am done messing with mutual matches...

I agree as well

I don't think that the system processes the info fast enough sometimes, but it works well for me.

it works like this
other members do a search...they answer yes, no or maybe....the yes and maybes becomes mutual matches...you will receive an email informing you that these ppl said yes or maybe...it doesn't name the members...you have to go to mutual matches search and rate them yourself.


can't expect van and mike to do all the work

I posted this in the htread above...guess they want to vote about the MM feature....this is one of my replies........and "thats all I have to say about that." (Forrest Gump)

ok, this said and then I'm out of this thread, (yeah like everyone hasn't heard that one b4 )....I don't even use MM. I didn't care it from the start. At first I thought it was a ok idea, but changed my mind.

I CHOOSE not to use it but have no way to turn off the feature so I won't keep getting the annoying e-mails and my pic being displayed to men while I have no intention to answer.

Not fair to them or me.

I have put a note in my profile that I don't use the feature, but come on folks....some get in a hurry and just click if they like the pic......

I would rather not be getting the notices and I'm sure the guys looking through the MM pics wouldn't want to have to waste thier time with someone who feels that way I do.

SO again, it can be as easy as making it an option, and everyone is happy.

Let it stay and let people decide if they want to use it. What's so hard about that?

I prefer to chat in the forums with someone.......the mutual match thing just shows me a bunch of faces with a blurb.....I hate those random Ims from ppl who see my profile....I have no way to judge how they are with just an email. At least in the forums I can see a little about their character in their answers......if they hang out only in the sex forums then I know they are just here for one thing.....

Agree with Gypsy

It has worked ok for me too. I had to broaden my search area.

works fine for me.

then again, I am a gorgeous speciman of a human being.