Where r you from and why can't you keep a man/woman?!

Life lessons learned! I suppose if I knew the complete answer I wouldn't be on this site, but I can think of a few reasons from past lovers: 1) I was with someone out of loneliness but unwilling to commit to that person. 2) I'm retired, which leaves me plenty of spare time. Wanting to spend more time with that person led to my pushing her away. 3) Sexy sluts offer instant gratification but often have no interest in commitment. 4) I sat on the pot but never shat. 5) 18-22 year olds in the military (probably the majority, 1 time enlistees) are not ready for commitment.