Topic: how to keep a good relationship and how it should start
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Wed 06/11/14 11:58 AM
It is a proven fact that communication is of a necessity and so is trust. A relationship should not be based on how good of a job a person has or what that person is able to do for you but more so what that person he or she is willing to do for you.....



/where you at.....

sparkyae5's photo
Wed 06/11/14 12:44 PM
unfortunately most communication is social intercourse and mental masturbation- what i mean is its persona ( the mask we show the world ) to persona and nothing meaningful is ever really going on---

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Wed 06/11/14 12:49 PM
Sex and tactical honesty! People will laugh or think it's stupid but intimacy is so important in a loving relationship and that feeling of giving yourself to another, to be naked and exposed, to sort of strip away all your protection is something that can be so rewarding. And tactical honesty, it's basically judging what needs to be said and what doesn't need to be said. Breaking someones heart for the purpose of honesty is wrong.

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Thu 06/12/14 07:48 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Thu 06/12/14 07:52 AM
how to keep a good relationship and how it should start you asked,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, '' ITS HOW OTHER PERSON FEELS ABOUT THEMSELVES WHILE THEY ARE WITH YOU '' will do wonders to help--

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Thu 06/12/14 08:22 AM
By being upfront and honest with each other. While keeping a healthy sex life.

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Thu 06/12/14 12:37 PM

By being upfront and honest with each other. While keeping a healthy sex life.



Being upfront, open and honest with each other, as well as kind and respectful, friendly and funny, will keep a sex life healthy. Lack of intimacy = diminished and eventually eliminated sex life. I don't care how sexy a man is, if he can't bare his soul to me I can't get excited about being with him.

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Thu 06/12/14 12:57 PM
My longest relationship was the most successfull, because we talked about everything. He would always ask "What are you thinking?", so I guess my emotions show easily through my eyes. So I would just tell him. Why hide anything from him, if I really loved him? I say "loved", but true love never really goes away. It just fades a little. He was a quiet but talkative kind. Very philosophical.

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Thu 06/12/14 01:02 PM


By being upfront and honest with each other. While keeping a healthy sex life.



Being upfront, open and honest with each other, as well as kind and respectful, friendly and funny, will keep a sex life healthy. Lack of intimacy = diminished and eventually eliminated sex life. I don't care how sexy a man is, if he can't bare his soul to me I can't get excited about being with him.


Agreed. If a guy is only going to be nasty to me, I won't want to be with him. And I don't plan on being with a scrooge anytime soon. It would discourage me from having sex with him. Can't imagine he'd be much fun. laugh :thumbsup:

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Thu 06/12/14 03:07 PM



By being upfront and honest with each other. While keeping a healthy sex life.



Being upfront, open and honest with each other, as well as kind and respectful, friendly and funny, will keep a sex life healthy. Lack of intimacy = diminished and eventually eliminated sex life. I don't care how sexy a man is, if he can't bare his soul to me I can't get excited about being with him.


Agreed. If a guy is only going to be nasty to me, I won't want to be with him. And I don't plan on being with a scrooge anytime soon. It would discourage me from having sex with him. Can't imagine he'd be much fun. laugh :thumbsup:


Agreed on both accounts.
Nobody wants to be around a**holes in general.

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Fri 06/13/14 09:50 AM
I'd love to know you better. Like you.