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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi???
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go 4 it Rihana...
then if u like the *** same as *** then u surely an bi... |
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I'm in the exact same boat as you. :) Explore ;) thats the only way you will know for sure.
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? No. It means you watch too much porn.  
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Not specifically. Women tend to fantasize or think about other women because it's something they don't usually get from the male side. The tenderness, softness, and so on as such. Women will tell women they're looking beautiful today, their hair is nice today, and so forth. Where men usually on a regular basis anyways fail to do this usually. So it would only be natural for you to potentially become "attracted" to a woman if there's no male figure doing this to you. You just said "make out with the woman". This isn't specifically sexual. Kisses are intimate, soft, and tender. I would figure most men don't kiss on the tender side, depending on the intentions of the kiss. But nevertheless I don't think it's specifically the "woman" you're looking for in these fantasies, but more so the tenderness, soft lips, gentle touch, and so on. Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view. not having faced this about myself, i instead side the very people that actually live through the senerio. |
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. |
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. |
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. |
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. |
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Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. I would love it if you would stop saying that I could have sex with a women if I chose. I could never CHOOSE that, because it is not where my heart and mind and body are drawn. Of course I could be raped or forced to have sex with someone I do not choose to have sex with and that could be my choice if I was threatened with death or something....so in that sense it would be a choice...but thats not what we are talking about. Im a righty, not a lefty. You can send me to all the trainings or therapies to make me write with my left hand and if I were ambidextrous then I may have an easier time than the others. I may even assume its a choice if I were ambidextrous. But I will always be a righty. I will force myself to write with my left hand and think I have poor motor skills and be ashamed of my poor handwriting, knowing with my right, I am more than capable and the motor dexterity is strong. I apologize, but you seem to have misunderstand something I've said. You have the answer right in your following comment of everything I been saying here. Mainly the "because it is not where my heart and mind and body are drawn". All I was getting at, is that it's psychological. Not any physical desire. None of us actually "need" another person opposite gender or same to survive or anything of such. It's all just physiological. I would love it if you would stop saying that I could have sex with a women if I chose. I could never CHOOSE that, because it is not where my heart and mind and body are drawn. |
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. 1. I'm not arguing lol, why take it so defensively? 2. I am not wrong, for again being attracted to the same gender in itself is not homosexual. Or EVERY woman would be homosexual, they are always saying how beautiful or even sexy each other are looking. It's only when action is put behind words, thoughts and or possible desires that it becomes homosexual. |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Mon 06/09/14 07:12 PM
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. 1. I'm not arguing lol, why take it so defensively? 2. I am not wrong, for again being attracted to the same gender in itself is not homosexual. Or EVERY woman would be homosexual, they are always saying how beautiful or even sexy each other are looking. It's only when action is put behind words, thoughts and or possible desires that it becomes homosexual. the word argue can be and is substituted for the word debate in many instances. ( i think you really need to look it up) who is taking anything 'defensively'? not me. i'm just focusing on the highlighted statement. i didn't say your opinion is wrong, i simply stated that i do not agree with it as it is not a fact, just an opinion. |
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I apologize, but you seem to have misunderstand something I've said. You have the answer right in your following comment of everything I been saying here. Mainly the "because it is not where my heart and mind and body are drawn". All I was getting at, is that it's psychological. Not any physical desire. None of us actually "need" another person opposite gender or same to survive or anything of such. It's all just physiological. I would love it if you would stop saying that I could have sex with a women if I chose. I could never CHOOSE that, because it is not where my heart and mind and body are drawn. Never once said or insinuated you have been "programmed". Women tend to lean towards other women because of their tenderness, softness, cleanliness, and so forth that most men don't generally practice. Women have more in common with other women then say men on a general note. That's why women will share secrets with their female friends before their male friends. And because of this closeness and the world becoming more publicly open to homosexuality they react with one another. Thus we have the name of this thread "Confused about my sexuality". |
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. 1. I'm not arguing lol, why take it so defensively? 2. I am not wrong, for again being attracted to the same gender in itself is not homosexual. Or EVERY woman would be homosexual, they are always saying how beautiful or even sexy each other are looking. It's only when action is put behind words, thoughts and or possible desires that it becomes homosexual. the word argue can be and is substituted for the word debate in many instances. ( i think you really need to look it up) who is taking anything 'defensively'? not me. i'm just focusing on the highlighted statement. i didn't say your opinion is wrong, i simply stated that i do not agree with it as it is not a fact, just an opinion. It is fact and it is true. None of us are born homosexual or heterosexual. There is little to no genetic affiliation to sexuality. Look it up if you don't believe. And if you do find something that says different, I ask that you either post it here or send it to me via PM. Because everything I've ever looked up or researched states we are born with no sexual preference. But later gain that through life's experiences and or "choice". |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Mon 06/09/14 07:42 PM
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. 1. I'm not arguing lol, why take it so defensively? 2. I am not wrong, for again being attracted to the same gender in itself is not homosexual. Or EVERY woman would be homosexual, they are always saying how beautiful or even sexy each other are looking. It's only when action is put behind words, thoughts and or possible desires that it becomes homosexual. the word argue can be and is substituted for the word debate in many instances. ( i think you really need to look it up) who is taking anything 'defensively'? not me. i'm just focusing on the highlighted statement. i didn't say your opinion is wrong, i simply stated that i do not agree with it as it is not a fact, just an opinion. It is fact and it is true. None of us are born homosexual or heterosexual. There is little to no genetic affiliation to sexuality. Look it up if you don't believe. And if you do find something that says different, I ask that you either post it here or send it to me via PM. Because everything I've ever looked up or researched states we are born with no sexual preference. But later gain that through life's experiences and or "choice". i'm thinking you may need to do some more research. there are plenty of guy people right here on this site, why not ask some of them about this? here is a link to get you started... http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/10637532/Being-homosexual-is-only-partly-due-to-gay-gene-research-finds.html |
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Somewhere Richard Simmons is insulted by this thread.
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Somewhere Richard Simmons is insulted by this thread.
And he's sweatin to the oldies. |
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How would you feel if you found out you were bi?
If you feel negatively toward the idea of being bi, then you probably not bi. If you get excited at the thought of being bi, then you probably are bi. |
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Edited by
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. 1. I'm not arguing lol, why take it so defensively? 2. I am not wrong, for again being attracted to the same gender in itself is not homosexual. Or EVERY woman would be homosexual, they are always saying how beautiful or even sexy each other are looking. It's only when action is put behind words, thoughts and or possible desires that it becomes homosexual. the word argue can be and is substituted for the word debate in many instances. ( i think you really need to look it up) who is taking anything 'defensively'? not me. i'm just focusing on the highlighted statement. i didn't say your opinion is wrong, i simply stated that i do not agree with it as it is not a fact, just an opinion. It is fact and it is true. None of us are born homosexual or heterosexual. There is little to no genetic affiliation to sexuality. Look it up if you don't believe. And if you do find something that says different, I ask that you either post it here or send it to me via PM. Because everything I've ever looked up or researched states we are born with no sexual preference. But later gain that through life's experiences and or "choice". i'm thinking you may need to do some more research. there are plenty of guy people right here on this site, why not ask some of them about this? here is a link to get you started... http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/10637532/Being-homosexual-is-only-partly-due-to-gay-gene-research-finds.html First line tells it. ---- Study finds that while gay men share similar genetic make-up, it only accounts for 40 per cent of chance of a man being homosexual ---- If it was purely genetic, then there would not be a missing 60% in those odds. It would be 100% or 0% when genetically speaking, it either is or isn't. Yes, I won't deny that genetics have SOMETHING to do with it, no doubt about that. Same as genetics have something to do with you liking the foods you like and so forth. But nevertheless it's still all physiological and a choice to actually journey down that road. The thought and idea intensifies that what was once a small idea of a desire. And there's nothing bad about that, ta'each their own. Why do you act like I'm trying to dog homosexuality KC? Why do you seem to feel I find it repulsive or foul in any way shape or form? Again ta'each their own. Since you shared a webpage, I'll share one as well. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sexing-the-body/201111/are-we-born-gay |
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