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Somewhere Richard Simmons is insulted by this thread.  lol kinda random, cute :)= |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Mon 06/09/14 08:24 PM
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. 1. I'm not arguing lol, why take it so defensively? 2. I am not wrong, for again being attracted to the same gender in itself is not homosexual. Or EVERY woman would be homosexual, they are always saying how beautiful or even sexy each other are looking. It's only when action is put behind words, thoughts and or possible desires that it becomes homosexual. the word argue can be and is substituted for the word debate in many instances. ( i think you really need to look it up) who is taking anything 'defensively'? not me. i'm just focusing on the highlighted statement. i didn't say your opinion is wrong, i simply stated that i do not agree with it as it is not a fact, just an opinion. It is fact and it is true. None of us are born homosexual or heterosexual. There is little to no genetic affiliation to sexuality. Look it up if you don't believe. And if you do find something that says different, I ask that you either post it here or send it to me via PM. Because everything I've ever looked up or researched states we are born with no sexual preference. But later gain that through life's experiences and or "choice". i'm thinking you may need to do some more research. there are plenty of guy people right here on this site, why not ask some of them about this? here is a link to get you started... http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/10637532/Being-homosexual-is-only-partly-due-to-gay-gene-research-finds.html First line tells it. ---- Study finds that while gay men share similar genetic make-up, it only accounts for 40 per cent of chance of a man being homosexual ---- If it was purely genetic, then there would not be a missing 60% in those odds. It would be 100% or 0% when genetically speaking, it either is or isn't. Yes, I won't deny that genetics have SOMETHING to do with it, no doubt about that. Same as genetics have something to do with you liking the foods you like and so forth. But nevertheless it's still all physiological and a choice to actually journey down that road. The thought and idea intensifies that what was once a small idea of a desire. And there's nothing bad about that, ta'each their own. Why do you act like I'm trying to dog homosexuality KC? Why do you seem to feel I find it repulsive or foul in any way shape or form? Again ta'each their own. Since you shared a webpage, I'll share one as well. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sexing-the-body/201111/are-we-born-gay i will view your link in a moment...first though, you have to read the entire article. in it it states that is is not a choice. directly different to your insistence. and where have i ever mentioned, hinted or inferred that you feel it is repulsive or anything of the sort. please do not put words into my mouth. you asked for a link, i provided one, nothing more. why is it that you cannot stay focused on the subject. do you have some sort of vendetta here? is your longing to be right so strong that you must cloud the issue to champion your stance? it's very confusing when trying to have an open discussion with someone that insists on turning the debate into something more personal. |
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Now your calling me confused because Im a woman? If Women tend to lean towards other women because of their tenderness, softness, cleanliness, and so forth, they want to have sex with each other? I wonder why you think you know what goes on both, with women and with me personally, better than I. You are neither, and I am both...you are not qualified. Do not speak of me further. Will be the last post of the night as you guys have taken things way out in left field and made this thread "weird". No, just because you're a woman doesn't make you confused. Never once said that in any way. And no the tenderness, softness and so forth wasn't in relation to specifically "sex", where did I ever say that? I said, "attraction". There is a huge line between attraction and sex. I have seen many women I thought were attractive but that does not mean I would jump in bed with them. Even some men I've seen I find hansom or "attractive", but again would never jump in bed with them. Come on people. |
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Elton John would probably flip his rings at all the nonsense.
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Hey guys.. Ive always been dating men.. But off recent one of my girlies told me she likes me and since then I've been fantasizing abt making out with a girl.. Does this mean m a bi??? Or possibly it just hit you so hard when she said that, because it was different, new, exciting hearing it from a woman rather then a man. Nobody is straight, gay, or bi by nature it's all a choice. Yes there are some chemistry inside of us that help with pushing one way or other, but nevertheless boils down to choice and what you're truly seeking in a partner/relationship. there are many thousands if not millions of [gay] people around the world that say the exact opposite of this. i for one do not share your view, instead i side the very people that actually live through the senerio. Not quite so. Being attracted to the same gender is not gay, homosexual, or bi. It is just that, being attracted to them. It only becomes homosexual when action is put behind those desires, thus where we have the choice. i was only addressing your specific statement, which i highlighted. And I responded to your response about the higlighted. Nobody is born homosexual, it's all entirely a choice. We're all born A sexual, neither homosexual or heterosexual. We make the choice of either one by fueling the different desires or not fueling them and letting them dwindle away. Which then ending up in the final results of either or after time. no, you responded by expanding the statement. either way, it's your opinion, but you are arguing like it is a fact. 1. I'm not arguing lol, why take it so defensively? 2. I am not wrong, for again being attracted to the same gender in itself is not homosexual. Or EVERY woman would be homosexual, they are always saying how beautiful or even sexy each other are looking. It's only when action is put behind words, thoughts and or possible desires that it becomes homosexual. the word argue can be and is substituted for the word debate in many instances. ( i think you really need to look it up) who is taking anything 'defensively'? not me. i'm just focusing on the highlighted statement. i didn't say your opinion is wrong, i simply stated that i do not agree with it as it is not a fact, just an opinion. It is fact and it is true. None of us are born homosexual or heterosexual. There is little to no genetic affiliation to sexuality. Look it up if you don't believe. And if you do find something that says different, I ask that you either post it here or send it to me via PM. Because everything I've ever looked up or researched states we are born with no sexual preference. But later gain that through life's experiences and or "choice". i'm thinking you may need to do some more research. there are plenty of guy people right here on this site, why not ask some of them about this? here is a link to get you started... http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/10637532/Being-homosexual-is-only-partly-due-to-gay-gene-research-finds.html First line tells it. ---- Study finds that while gay men share similar genetic make-up, it only accounts for 40 per cent of chance of a man being homosexual ---- If it was purely genetic, then there would not be a missing 60% in those odds. It would be 100% or 0% when genetically speaking, it either is or isn't. Yes, I won't deny that genetics have SOMETHING to do with it, no doubt about that. Same as genetics have something to do with you liking the foods you like and so forth. But nevertheless it's still all physiological and a choice to actually journey down that road. The thought and idea intensifies that what was once a small idea of a desire. And there's nothing bad about that, ta'each their own. Why do you act like I'm trying to dog homosexuality KC? Why do you seem to feel I find it repulsive or foul in any way shape or form? Again ta'each their own. Since you shared a webpage, I'll share one as well. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sexing-the-body/201111/are-we-born-gay i will view your link in a moment...first though, you have to read the entire article. in it it states that is is not a choice. directly different to your insistence. and where have i ever mentioned, hinted or inferred that you feel it is repulsive or anything of the sort. please do not put words into my mouth. you asked for a link, i provided one, nothing more. why is it that you cannot stay focused on the subject. do you have some sort of vendetta here? is your longing to be right so strong that you must cloud the issue to champion your stance? it's very confusing when trying to have an open discussion with someone that insists on turning the debate into something more personal. Excuse me? Vendetta? Longing to be right? lol I have no vendetta and if I'm wrong I truly wish for you to show me where I am wrong. All my studies in that past along these lines is yes there is some degree, very small, but some degree of genetics in homosexuality. The rest is physiological and personal choice to do the action(s) thereof. Again if I'm wrong, please do show me where I'm wrong with specific scientific study on such a subject. I already know I don't know everything. But since you don't know the difference between a "discussion" and an "argument/debate" I will leave this thread now as it will no longer bring anything constructive. Good night to you good sir. |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Mon 06/09/14 09:29 PM
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well for starters, since you brought up left field, where did this come from? "Why do you act like I'm trying to dog homosexuality KC? Why do you seem to feel I find it repulsive or foul in any way shape or form?"
not from me, from you. i didn't say any of that. nor did i elude to it. it is something you conjured up and attempted to place on my tongue. how would you know how i feel unless i say so? |
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