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Having never been married, I can only say what I have seen in my friend's marriages. For men or women, they don't make the effort to keep the relationship going. Some take it for granted after a time. Others are too busy with life, that they forget the little things that made things special. For some, it seems like the grass is greener in the next house. A man might say he goes to another woman to find attention, but doesn't always realize all the attention and effort his wife puts forth in making his house a home. Or vice versa. You hit the nail on the head when you said "they forget the little things". They stop doing the things that attracted them to each other in the first place, the thing(s) that made the relationship strong. For example of possibilities, opening doors, a kiss at departing from one another even if it's just going to the store, chocolates on valentines, and so forth. They get into a routine kind of life and forget about the spontaneous things they once did that again helped make the relationship so strong. Yes I agree with all of this. |
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Edited by
AMILIA1724
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Sat 06/07/14 09:01 AM
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Having never been married, I can only say what I have seen in my friend's marriages. For men or women, they don't make the effort to keep the relationship going. Some take it for granted after a time. Others are too busy with life, that they forget the little things that made things special. For some, it seems like the grass is greener in the next house. A man might say he goes to another woman to find attention, but doesn't always realize all the attention and effort his wife puts forth in making his house a home. Or vice versa. You hit the nail on the head when you said "they forget the little things". They stop doing the things that attracted them to each other in the first place, the thing(s) that made the relationship strong. For example of possibilities, opening doors, a kiss at departing from one another even if it's just going to the store, chocolates on valentines, and so forth. They get into a routine kind of life and forget about the spontaneous things they once did that again helped make the relationship so strong. |
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Any one from burewala??????????
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amiliaaaaaaa
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Well I gave my wife the world and she was still unhappy and wanted me to tell her she is beautiful every day and I did sweet things for her everyday and bought her a teddy bear every weekend cause I knew it would make her smile thus making me happy. In the last 8 months she spent $30,000.00 of our money on heroin, and sold my jewelry that meant the world to me for more heroin. So even though I love her I had to break up with her cause I was enabling her and being too codependent. I will and do miss her but I need to protect myself. So i don't know why guys would throw away something so good just cause they don't realize what they have till its gone forever.
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Well I gave my wife the world and she was still unhappy and wanted me to tell her she is beautiful every day and I did sweet things for her everyday and bought her a teddy bear every weekend cause I knew it would make her smile thus making me happy. In the last 8 months she spent $30,000.00 of our money on heroin, and sold my jewelry that meant the world to me for more heroin. So even though I love her I had to break up with her cause I was enabling her and being too codependent. I will and do miss her but I need to protect myself. So i don't know why guys would throw away something so good just cause they don't realize what they have till its gone forever. Alanon? |
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Yo....Kc....bring the decoder ring... he'll figure out it's an english site.... |
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Well I gave my wife the world and she was still unhappy and wanted me to tell her she is beautiful every day and I did sweet things for her everyday and bought her a teddy bear every weekend cause I knew it would make her smile thus making me happy. In the last 8 months she spent $30,000.00 of our money on heroin, and sold my jewelry that meant the world to me for more heroin. So even though I love her I had to break up with her cause I was enabling her and being too codependent. I will and do miss her but I need to protect myself. So i don't know why guys would throw away something so good just cause they don't realize what they have till its gone forever. Alanon? really who is co dependent? why get involved with a heroin addict in the first place? I usually question these one sided stories that are clearly a sympathy ploy....but that's just me |
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Edited by
mikey5360
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Thu 06/12/14 04:39 AM
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For men or women, they don't make the effort to keep the relationship going.Some take it for granted after a time. Others are too busy with life, that they forget the little things that made things special. Make the effort. Never take anything for granted. Take time out to smell the roses. |
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Well I gave my wife the world and she was still unhappy and wanted me to tell her she is beautiful every day and I did sweet things for her everyday and bought her a teddy bear every weekend cause I knew it would make her smile thus making me happy. In the last 8 months she spent $30,000.00 of our money on heroin, and sold my jewelry that meant the world to me for more heroin. So even though I love her I had to break up with her cause I was enabling her and being too codependent. I will and do miss her but I need to protect myself. So i don't know why guys would throw away something so good just cause they don't realize what they have till its gone forever. Alanon? really who is co dependent? why get involved with a heroin addict in the first place? I usually question these one sided stories that are clearly a sympathy ploy....but that's just me Me, I can't live without you! |
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Well I gave my wife the world and she was still unhappy and wanted me to tell her she is beautiful every day and I did sweet things for her everyday and bought her a teddy bear every weekend cause I knew it would make her smile thus making me happy. In the last 8 months she spent $30,000.00 of our money on heroin, and sold my jewelry that meant the world to me for more heroin. So even though I love her I had to break up with her cause I was enabling her and being too codependent. I will and do miss her but I need to protect myself. So i don't know why guys would throw away something so good just cause they don't realize what they have till its gone forever. Alanon? really who is co dependent? why get involved with a heroin addict in the first place? I usually question these one sided stories that are clearly a sympathy ploy....but that's just me Me, I can't live without you! |
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becoz they wnat fun out side their home. and I saw their wife also want other man or boy.man think now wife has old and I should flirt other one.due to this also get old one..and their relations had broken.due to all this rubish activity [a few mint enjoy] thir children's can be lost their aim.so please avoid this and if u have any problem with u r partner say her/him and search a best solution.
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Seems to me most married men use all the same lines, must have all read the same book! LOL! They want their cake and eat it too, simple!! Dating a married man to me is a dead end street, that is if your looking for a real relationship verses a "booty call"!
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How much, SEX (Love Making) re leaf your tension, and sooothing ur mind??
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How much, SEX (Love Making) re leaf your tension, and sooothing ur mind?? |
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Well I gave my wife the world and she was still unhappy and wanted me to tell her she is beautiful every day and I did sweet things for her everyday and bought her a teddy bear every weekend cause I knew it would make her smile thus making me happy. In the last 8 months she spent $30,000.00 of our money on heroin, and sold my jewelry that meant the world to me for more heroin. So even though I love her I had to break up with her cause I was enabling her and being too codependent. I will and do miss her but I need to protect myself. So i don't know why guys would throw away something so good just cause they don't realize what they have till its gone forever. Alanon? really who is co dependent? why get involved with a heroin addict in the first place? I usually question these one sided stories that are clearly a sympathy ploy....but that's just me Me, I can't live without you! |
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Most likely because people get married for silly reasons.
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Edited by
AMILIA1724
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Wed 06/25/14 07:07 PM
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Silly reasons?
Thats why still looking for another silly reasons,hmmmmm I did no judge him/ them,maybe theyre bored and wants to have another person in his life to understand his situation. |
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