Well I gave my wife the world and she was still unhappy and wanted me to tell her she is beautiful every day and I did sweet things for her everyday and bought her a teddy bear every weekend cause I knew it would make her smile thus making me happy. In the last 8 months she spent $30,000.00 of our money on heroin, and sold my jewelry that meant the world to me for more heroin. So even though I love her I had to break up with her cause I was enabling her and being too codependent. I will and do miss her but I need to protect myself. So i don't know why guys would throw away something so good just cause they don't realize what they have till its gone forever.