Topic: people with no profile pic...my pet peeve
panchovanilla's photo
Mon 06/02/14 08:49 PM


Maybe someone can enlighten me as to the purpose as to why someone wouldnt have a profile pic. Personally, I will not speak to someone if they dont have a profile pic that shows their face, specifically. Its like being in a dating environment while wearing a paper bag on your head as you go around and introduce yourself to other people. I get a lot of chat requests from people who have no profile pic, kinda drives me crazy. I dont know.... this has just been a pet peeve of mine. Maybe you guys could shed some light...


am I the only one that sees the irony here?noway

NOrofl

panchovanilla's photo
Mon 06/02/14 08:51 PM
Brown bagging it, does not make me a bad person.

Besides..
Ever try to breath through plastic???

2469nascar's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:00 PM


Maybe someone can enlighten me

am I the only one that sees the irony here?noway
ya I Love that you can only see half of the op face on her profile.maybe she can enlighten us on that..FLMFAO!!!

no photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:07 PM

Maybe someone can enlighten me as to the purpose as to why someone wouldnt have a profile pic. Personally, I will not speak to someone if they dont have a profile pic that shows their face, specifically. Its like being in a dating environment while wearing a paper bag on your head as you go around and introduce yourself to other people. I get a lot of chat requests from people who have no profile pic, kinda drives me crazy. I dont know.... this has just been a pet peeve of mine. Maybe you guys could shed some light...




kis, ah say KISS mah pecker.





at least one of us (if not both) will feel better about things.

no photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:15 PM


I know how ya feel cuz people with pictures are my pet peeve they

could be like wanting me to see them,so that I might be attracted

to them and like email them or something and then have to come up

with something to talk about so I get to know them and possibly

get into some kind of relationship and then talk to them all hours

of the night when I would rather be doing something else.

and to think

it never would of happened if she hadn't posted the picture of

herself..good grief...:laughing:

dcastelmissy's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:21 PM



Maybe someone can enlighten me

am I the only one that sees the irony here?noway
ya I Love that you can only see half of the op face on her profile.maybe she can enlighten us on that..FLMFAO!!!


The top part of the picture cuts off on the forum page but is fully visible on her profile page in ALL of her pictures. huh

2469nascar's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:25 PM
yes thank you for pointing that out missy. just bein a smartazz.

dreamerana's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:37 PM


lots of reasons for this.
some people do not care what you think.
some people come here for the forums and not for dating.
some people truly don't know how to post a pic.
some people are more protective of their privacy and only expose themselves to people they are interested in.

bottom line...personal choice.


Orrrrrr, they're a scammer or married and don't want you to know who they really are......just saying :tongue:

Aww Missy, you just gave away two of my secrets.

dreamerana's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:48 PM

Maybe someone can enlighten me as to the purpose as to why someone wouldnt have a profile pic. Personally, I will not speak to someone if they dont have a profile pic that shows their face, specifically. Its like being in a dating environment while wearing a paper bag on your head as you go around and introduce yourself to other people. I get a lot of chat requests from people who have no profile pic, kinda drives me crazy. I dont know.... this has just been a pet peeve of mine. Maybe you guys could shed some light...


Here's a question for you.
When you receive a gift, do you keep the box and the beautiful wrapping? Or do you keep and take joy from what's inside?

2469nascar's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:51 PM


Maybe someone can enlighten me as to the purpose as to why someone wouldnt have a profile pic. Personally, I will not speak to someone if they dont have a profile pic that shows their face, specifically. Its like being in a dating environment while wearing a paper bag on your head as you go around and introduce yourself to other people. I get a lot of chat requests from people who have no profile pic, kinda drives me crazy. I dont know.... this has just been a pet peeve of mine. Maybe you guys could shed some light...


Here's a question for you.
When you receive a gift, do you keep the box and the beautiful wrapping? Or do you keep and take joy from what's inside?
intresting..I like that ^^^^^^^^

dreamerana's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:56 PM



Maybe someone can enlighten me as to the purpose as to why someone wouldnt have a profile pic. Personally, I will not speak to someone if they dont have a profile pic that shows their face, specifically. Its like being in a dating environment while wearing a paper bag on your head as you go around and introduce yourself to other people. I get a lot of chat requests from people who have no profile pic, kinda drives me crazy. I dont know.... this has just been a pet peeve of mine. Maybe you guys could shed some light...


Here's a question for you.
When you receive a gift, do you keep the box and the beautiful wrapping? Or do you keep and take joy from what's inside?
intresting..I like that ^^^^^^^^


flowerforyou Thank you

dcastelmissy's photo
Mon 06/02/14 09:59 PM



lots of reasons for this.
some people do not care what you think.
some people come here for the forums and not for dating.
some people truly don't know how to post a pic.
some people are more protective of their privacy and only expose themselves to people they are interested in.

bottom line...personal choice.


Orrrrrr, they're a scammer or married and don't want you to know who they really are......just saying :tongue:

Aww Missy, you just gave away two of my secrets.



Shhhhh, don't admit to anything...just between you and me, I'm really a Miniature Schnauzer...don't tell anyone! :tongue:

ridewytepony's photo
Mon 06/02/14 10:04 PM


Maybe someone can enlighten me as to the purpose as to why someone wouldnt have a profile pic. Personally, I will not speak to someone if they dont have a profile pic that shows their face, specifically. Its like being in a dating environment while wearing a paper bag on your head as you go around and introduce yourself to other people. I get a lot of chat requests from people who have no profile pic, kinda drives me crazy. I dont know.... this has just been a pet peeve of mine. Maybe you guys could shed some light...


am I the only one that sees the irony here?noway

:laughing: people are f*ed
No that one went... blow my headrofl

dreamerana's photo
Mon 06/02/14 10:34 PM




lots of reasons for this.
some people do not care what you think.
some people come here for the forums and not for dating.
some people truly don't know how to post a pic.
some people are more protective of their privacy and only expose themselves to people they are interested in.

bottom line...personal choice.


Orrrrrr, they're a scammer or married and don't want you to know who they really are......just saying :tongue:

Aww Missy, you just gave away two of my secrets.



Shhhhh, don't admit to anything...just between you and me, I'm really a Miniature Schnauzer...don't tell anyone! :tongue:

laugh Don't worry your secret is safe with me.

Anna123345's photo
Mon 06/02/14 10:43 PM
I think I'm one of them. If you have a pic on your profile. People will look at you and judge if your pretty, good looking or just an ugly one. Then you can never find your soulmate. Bz they just love you bz your a good looking girl not yourself

kc0003's photo
Mon 06/02/14 10:50 PM

I think I'm one of them. If you have a pic on your profile. People will look at you and judge if your pretty, good looking or just an ugly one. Then you can never find your soulmate. Bz they just love you bz your a good looking girl not yourself

not true. someone may pick you because they are attracted to you, yes, but they fall in love with you, not your image. (for the most part)

Argo's photo
Mon 06/02/14 11:05 PM
i dont think any blind people choose to be that way....so, since i have good eyesight, i prefer to see the person i'm talking to, regardless of how they look, and thats goes for males or females......not a requirement just my personal preference...

no1phD's photo
Mon 06/02/14 11:13 PM
yes if you do not have a picture on your profile.. it can be a little deceiving.. case in point.. quite a while back.. I was messaging someone local.. things are going well
but you do not have a pic of herself.
. she claimed it was because her Beauty Dru too much attention..
. I finally convinced her to post a picture.. she posted 3.. two we're very nice.. one was very.. sexy and sultry.. I suggested she just does not post the sexy one.. and therefore she would not be drawing attention to herself anymore.. I personally thought to myself.. Wow PhD..
. you landed yourself a looker..laugh .
.hmm. 1 week later.. we were arranging to meet.. she said before we meet. I need to tell you and show you something... those last 3 pics.
that I showed you of myself.. well they were me but when I was much younger...hmm.. I thought..ok..sooo
. what do you have to show me..sad
. she posted a picture of .her....recent....self..omg.. I swear I threw ..up ..in my .mouth a little bit...laugh . she must have been 78 years old.
. Weighed a good 300 pounds. was missing teeth..
. so I believe not only having a picture up is helpful.
but they should be currentfrustrated
.

Astrid's photo
Mon 06/02/14 11:18 PM

yes if you do not have a picture on your profile.. it can be a little deceiving.. case in point.. quite a while back.. I was messaging someone local.. things are going well
but you do not have a pic of herself.
. she claimed it was because her Beauty Dru too much attention..
. I finally convinced her to post a picture.. she posted 3.. two we're very nice.. one was very.. sexy and sultry.. I suggested she just does not post the sexy one.. and therefore she would not be drawing attention to herself anymore.. I personally thought to myself.. Wow PhD..
. you landed yourself a looker..laugh .
.hmm. 1 week later.. we were arranging to meet.. she said before we meet. I need to tell you and show you something... those last 3 pics.
that I showed you of myself.. well they were me but when I was much younger...hmm.. I thought..ok..sooo
. what do you have to show me..sad
. she posted a picture of .her....recent....self..omg.. I swear I threw ..up ..in my .mouth a little bit...laugh . she must have been 78 years old.
. Weighed a good 300 pounds. was missing teeth..
. so I believe not only having a picture up is helpful.
but they should be currentfrustrated
.


Awww No1 flowerforyou ...that sucks. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

dreamerana's photo
Mon 06/02/14 11:20 PM
Those who have a profile pic of something other than yourself have simply found a different way to represent ourselves. It means something if you take the time to askor be oobservant.
Or it tells us something about them.
Hope my fellow mingle friends will forgive me giving myself permission to use your name.
NASCAR's name and picture tell us about his passion for racing.
dub's cartoon guy makes me think he identifies with that character we grew up watching.
Franky's current pic reminds me of survivors, though I haven't asked.
there are others I could name, but I think you get the idea that each one has a story.
If anyone cares to ask, I tell them what my pics mean to me, besides that I appreciate landscapes.