Hiya Leigh

Well, maybe I've been unlucky, although other women have said similar things in that sense in the other topic on this.
But don't tell me you can see yourself in a LTR with let's say a 34 yr old?
I know I can't. Bit younger, fair enough, but there's a limit for me. Too different stages in life, too different in life's experience etc.
Surely you have an approx. age limit?

Thing is I don't and this is why....I believe the minute you start defining (limiting?) who you can or cannot fall in love with you run the risk of never finding true love...As I said, age does not define many of us....If it feels right for both, it is right....

... but what do women see in younger guys?

Yeah, I get that, more ppl feel that way. To me having a LTR with someone 25-30 years younger - meaning younger than my own kids! - is too much for me though.
I believe that the right partner for me is sort of my age and not 20 or 30 or 70 or 80 or whatever.
I even find ppl some 10 yrs younger very different in where there are in life, their views, feelings etc.
Most ppl that age are still so terribly concerned with getting old (OMG, I'm ALMOST forty, my life is over!!).
I just believe that THE partner for me is also happily pulling 40

Alls I know is: �I ain�t as good as I once was, but I�m good once as I ever was.�

And that's awesome Crystal, knowing for certain what does and does not work for you ...Me, I'm not that sure...I've had some awesome relationships with both older and younger men...For whatever reason, we just clicked on all four burners.....Another thing that might explain our differing views is, now that I am a retired, financially secure, empty nester, I tend to live more in the moment...For me, a serious relationship does not necessarily mean "for the rest of my life" and marriage is no longer a requirement....

age does not define many of us....If it feels right for both, it is right....

I totally get what you mean. I could sense that yesterday when I was typing it, almost knew for sure you were going to reply along those lines (my intuition is working overtime the last couple of days) and I can sort of "step" into a situation and feel what it's like.
I think when I'm in my 60s I will feel the same way. Feels like you're even more relaxed then than you are at my age. And compared to 30 something being my age is much more relaxed in comparison, lol. Guess the (thinking for the right word/phrase) natural flow of things? Gotta be a word for it, can't think of it.
Must be a great phase in life, what you describe sounds great :)
I still want things, in the sense that I want to fulfill my life's goal, or at least make a start with it. Currently trying to get clear what it is. (Getting there, but finding out is a journey in itself.) So in that sense I feel 'unfulfilled' still.
I do hope that by the time I'm in my 60's I can have that same feeling! And pls don't get me wrong, I don't mean to be nasty/condescending or whatever here, au contraire ...
Must admit I'm enjoying our exchange

Just found this!!...Same here, I always enjoy talking with you!..All of our questions never get answered and that is what gives life meaning, but to finally reach a point when you can sit back and say, "I did it!" is a wonderful feeling...I can enjoy my freedom without guilt because I earned it...I worked hard and I planned well and it wasn't always easy....So yes, it is a a fabulous phase and well worth the effort...Something tells me you will have this feeling or something very similar too Crystal!...

Because old woman's are very emotional and they don't wanna get used
Lol

I believe the term in 'Cougars' not 'old woman's'

You assume something that has not been proven to be true.

So, what is your objective behind such a question?

Cougars are hot and sexy older woman, usually in their 40s, 50s, and 60s...They are single women who are sick of their same-age counterparts who usually have big guts, only talk about their investment accounts, and have the TV remote control attached to their belt... Cougars are attractive, in their sexual prime women who know what they want and aren't afraid to go after it...BIG misconception is that they dress cheap, wear hot pink nail polish, and are old looking hags with dyed hair.... Real cougars are classy, beautiful creatures who have made their successes on their own, have real brains, drive expensive cars, own nice homes, and turn heads everywhere they go... Cougars seek younger men, and don't have to sneak up and attack to do it because they know their younger mates are eager to get an experienced woman who won't ask if they're going to call them the next day... Being a cougar is a positive thing...


The End.....

I like older Woman How bout you?
19's are good to look at,
But they're to young for my lovin'
20's are fun but they're not done,
You need to stick 'em back in the oven
At 33 they're divorced and free,
But now they hate all men
But at 42 they love to screw!
But wanna get married again!
Ohh I like older Woman How bout you?
Hey at 59 they're lookin' fine,
But they're still not a winner.
But man alive at 65,
You get a discount when you take 'em to dinner
At 78 hey they're looking great!
Bending over with their gravy ladle.
But if your talking chicks at 86!
You know you're still robbing the cradle!
Yeah I like older Woman, the older they are the better!

Because old woman's are very emotional and they don't wanna get used
Lol