Is it swallow to end it with a woman that bores you... yeah she has
potential... but is it swallow to not want to wait and see.

if you mean shallow, i don't think it is. you may not be giving it a
complete chance but there is no guarentee that things will get
better.......if you actually mean swallow, i couldn't tell you .

Yeah... shallow...thanks

what ontario u want to end it with the one u went on a date with lately?
I thought everything was going fine!!

If you are not completely content or happy, no matter the reason, END
IT. Why prolong the inevitable for either one of you. It's not fair to
her, be a good, decent person and just let her know. Be respectful and
do the right thing, you will see that even though it may hurt her or
piss her off, or whatever emotion she expresses, in the end she will
respect you for your straight forwardness. Good luck to you, but this
is why its called dating, to see if a lasting relationship is what we
are wanting from that person, if it's not, END IT.

Yeah Ontario-- "Swallow" is DEFINITELY another topic!!! LOL

But I dont think its shallow to stay with someone who bores you. There's
someone for everyone, and if there's no chemistry dont waste ur time
waitin for something to show up. If I've learned anything about bein
with someone is don't expect them to change. U either take that one for
who they are, or you move on, Cuz what u dont like in the beginning will
definitely only turn into what u hate later!

Hummm, well Ontario I must say that this time I have to fully agree with
Chuckee. She is right why drag a relantionship on that does not have the
chemistry there for both it just makes the hurt worse in the end. Be
honest and respectful is what it is all about.

Well said Txs...I cudnt agree mor

Okay...Thanks!

But I did say there is Potential here... I like her, she is interesting
in some ways and she is part of my circle of friends.
Yes I can but impulsive, I,m a high octant kinda guy, and get bored
quickly...is it me? Am I too impatient, This woman is ready to settle,
and start making babies...at 28yrs... should I swallow the pill. How
many marriages really have heat and passion...?

If you cannot begin with heat and passion, it will not magically appear
later...It should be part of the whole package...not necessarily the
first step, but it should definetely be part of the attraction...
Trust me, if the passion isn't there to begin with, it won't come after
kids either...

follow your heart Ontario
follow your heart man
you know exactly what to do,

Morena said it all!!!! Ont, you do know what to do. Sh** or get off
the pot. lol. Good luck.

What... I mean, huh...?

think they are tryin' to say "Trust in your heart,,,not your
zipper"????....M.

Go for it Ontanio, u will be hating your self later if u did not at
least tried.

I did and decided that what was missing from the relationship was me...!
So I,m going to invest more of myself in this and see what
happens...starting tonight I,m taking her to dinner.

Good luck u deserve it!

Hummmm, and soooo what happen?

Hey, Ontario, Welll I'm waiting to hear what happen?