I am rather shy but it seems being shy won't get me anywhere. I'd like to get in contact with nice Christian men and instead all these old farts come crawling out the woodwork asking if I'm into weird and lewd stuff. Where's my knight in shining armor when I need him and how come he can't say hello and continue talking, rather they sound interesting and then go and hide! Ohhh!

Am no expert in relationships but if you are looking for someone to spend forever with, just be patient and keep your eyes open. U must consider the fact that your Mr Right may not be a Christian guy but that don't mean he is not honest, faithful and possess other qualities that you desire in a partner..... Hope you find what you looking for..... Peace!!!

"Is it forward of a Christian girl to say hi first?"

No, it is not.

Howdy :)

it would be rly nice for a girl to say 'hy' first

Hello there.
Hopefully you'll still be in distress so I could come to your aide.
My name is Rene, what's yours.?
I want to meet someone who is not afraid of life and wants to have a bit of good company. I like movies, food,music and many other things. Send me a message if you would like to meet or talk. I am mature and Iam not looking for games. I know what you meant when you said that.

Dito

The peace of our Lord and Saviour Jesus be with fellow christian in d christiandom.
It a pleasure coming your way dear Sis.
Can we be friends?
Hope to hear from you.
Till then,Mizpah:the Lord watch between you and I while we abscent one from another.
bye for now please.

No, I don't believe it is too forward for a Christian lady to say hi first, or any lady for that matter. I don't see anything necessarily wrong or too forward about it. Although, guys do appreciate more when they search through a crowd, and pick out a lady they like, and contact her first, introducing himself, and showing interest. But there are also times when sometimes guys may be shy too, and/or afraid of rejection, so they also like and appreciate at times when a lady shows some sweet flirtatious interest, to let a guy know she's interested in getting to know him. Then a man's approach feels even easier to them. So if you happen to stumble across a profile you like, that you just can't pass up writing to the guy, do let him know it (wink).

It is definitely not forward for a Christian woman to say hi first. We are no longer in the seventies and I don't think any gender has a monopoly on the first step. Besides a hi is simply a hi, let us not read meanings into simple things

Lotta guys shy too....maybe need little encouragement lol...i wish nice girl would say hello ...sometime lady so lovely men think they have no chance!..i hope ladies do introduce if they interested otherwise lotta men left in solitude....God bless!

so manytimes its good lady say Hi first to men it good and gives hope and joy to the oneits send to so its advisable for ladies to do that sometime

not at all. i think you will find alot of guys like that. i go to cottage way christian and it is very nice. i know some of the girls in the choir and they are very forward. they are not afrain to walk right up to you and say how are you doing.

If you are looking for a nice Christian guy that is respectful with good values try Christian Caf�. It's one that I use and there are really nice people there.

Steven

If you do then just make sure you also bring some yogurt with ya. That will ease the tension.

But you need to remember that God doesnt want us to be unyoked.
You want a strong Christian man to take the spiritual lead in your relationship.

very nice post.
i like that!
to me, nothing is wrong in saying 'hi' to a man first. i as a person appreciate it more. for instance, my pastor has always been saying it that i should talk to any lady within the church premises for a relationship, for he(pastor) knows that am ready to mary and that i am a serious person. but, i couldn't just stand it, if there is any rejection from the opposite sex.

WOW could not have said it better,