Ok I want to know something. Why is it when I meet someone new the first thing they want to talk about is what I am wearing? I don't get it! I was talking to two different men at the same time and they both kept trying to talk dirty. I don’t know about the rest of you out there but I just want to get to know someone first before our conversation become intimate. I can understand if you are dating and you wanna play that game but if I have never met you I don’t want to talk about what kind of bra I am wearing.

I turned it off...I got sick of describing what I was wearing...

I just dont understand there are all kinds of thigns to talk about why do they have to choose underwear?

I've had the same problem.... and they just go straight to 'ignore' now!

They don't want to get to know you... they just want to 'get off' at your expense!

some people are just pervs
BTW r u actually wearing a bra?

I immediately stop talking to them!!! delete delete!!!! Im not no hollaback girl!!!

I turned it off too. I never really liked getting random IMs from people I haven't emailed or posted with on the forums.

I have no idea, and the mail system works fine for me...if I want to IM I have other services I utilise.

It can be a great feature, and I know a lot of friends use it here for instant chats, and quick catch ups...for me...hmmmm nope, I can contact my friends, through mail, and other services.

The 'what are you wearing' thing is hilarious though...I think I have worn a suit of armour, a pumpkin outfit...umm biohazard body suits...then I got bored trying to think up crazier outfits..

i never answer IMs from people i do not know
and that is why i stay off my aim and yahoo

come on gypsy we'va already talked about that.

Like Frank Zappa said: "The two most common elements in the universe are hydrogen and human stupidity."

e-Perverts abound on these sites, best thing is to ignore them, block them, report them to VC and Mike if they get too annoying, but there's no reason you, or anyone else, should have to deal with idiots.

Well I am glad Im not the only one. its so disrespectful.

Miguelllllllllllll..........hmmmmmmmm what are you wearing????

Oh crap!!! I forgot I even made a thread about what are you wearing!!!

BAY_ GAL WHAT AM I DOING WRONG I MUST HAVE LOST SOMTHING WHILE I WAS IN THE HOSP. I KEEP POPING UP ON THE WRONG TOPIC ???????????:

Marlena...

Wait...till they ask you if you "SWALLOW" then you can be in my league....and I am sorry to say, I am NOT kidding about that either...

Oh no I get that all the time too. I was keeping it mild. Its sick. I keep my im open so i can meet people, thats why I am here.

Oh no I get that all the time too. I was keeping it mild. Its sick. I keep my im open so i can meet people, thats why I am here.

Yes I swallow






















food!!!

geeeez...I dont take offence...

I take a gate it's more useful.

Truth be known, yep had all the What are's? Do you's? etc etc...and when I got sick of making up ridiculous answers I just turned it off.

Didn't bother me...there are idjits everywhere...I just dont want to play with them anymore.