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For the last two years I have had many computer issues. After two years, I am feeling an attraction to the guy that works on my computer. He is a shy guy and seems to be interacting with me a little bit more than just a customer. I have watched him interact with other customers and they do not receive the treatment that I get. He gives me extra discounts, free service and let's me go behind the employee counter, plus he stands closer to me when interacting with me. I am shy, but I would like to get to know him more. He is ten years younger than me. I do not know if he has a girlfriend, but I know he has an account on a dating site. What would you suggest I do? Guys are a silly bunch. We see a girl we like and if we feel we can get her (meaning we can get a first date with her) we are bold enough and make a move. On the other hand, if the girl is what we call "out of our league" then we tend to act shy and do not act so bold. Seems to me you fall in the latter category. You need to send a vibe that he can attain you and then let him make his move. He needs to do it simply because he has (sort of) made the first move with how nice he is being to you. He seems to like you but there is something holding him back. Shy or not he wants to be more bold. Allow him this....but do get that ball rolling by making it clear that you have interest. How do you do this? A simple little touch can work. Smile big when he comes into the room. Make him see how you seeing him makes you feel like you are on cloud nine. Just do simple things that will state the obvious.....you are into him. |
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Yeah, I would just say hi to him on the dating site and see how that goes. Either that or just say to him the next time that you see him that you saw his profile on a dating site. Lets him know that you're available as well and you could have some sort of conversation about dating. When I meet women in the real world and they ask me what I've been up to recently I tell them that I've been trying internet dating and it lets them know that I'm looking for a girlfriend. That sounds like a good idea. My problem now is that my computer is fixed. Do I pretend something is wrong so that I have an excuse to see him? I did give him my card and told him that for all of his work that he went over and beyond what I had expected, I would give him a free massage. Do I wait for him to call or come up with an excuse to use his computer services. He is on a paid dating service that I do not have an account with If he has not followed up on your offer of a free massage then I'd say you have your answer. If you pretend something is wrong with his computer he will know that there is nothing wrong so that will seem silly. he may have just been flirting a little...with no intention of anything else Smile and if he is interested he will contact you. .. Good luck JP. A man sent me a bag of rice once to my work and admittedly I thought... Wtf.. But when I read his note ... The alternative is dinner with me .. I couldn't help but smile and phone him :-) That is very creative! |
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If he has not followed up on your offer of a free massage then I'd say you have your answer.
Gotta agree with this. Girl gives a guy a card for a free massage and possibly a "happy ending" and the guy don't take up the offer he's either gay or just not interested. |
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