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Topic: a bad crush?
celticricket Joined Sat 06/23/07 Posts: 2982	Wed 09/19/07 08:01 AM
yeah, like i said, he doesnt know about the crush...he hasnt done anything that would hurt his GF. he's just being my friend and thats cool. im not going to do or say anything at this point because it wouldnt be fair to any of us.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 09/19/07 08:03 AM
Got it loud and clear

Sexysari004 Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 625	Wed 09/19/07 08:07 AM
you have to let them know... im going through the same thing with my best friend ilike him.. and after reading the advice the others gave me ive decided to go for it and just tell him.. i think you should tell the one you like as well!

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Wed 09/19/07 08:59 AM
You need to find someone else to have a crush on dear... Been there, done that- it really does stink... We don't allways get who we want

Sexysari004 Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 625	Wed 09/19/07 09:00 AM
dont listen to the woman above me.. you need to give it a shot

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Wed 09/19/07 02:28 PM


carebear19622 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 8760	Wed 09/19/07 02:32 PM
but remember sexy her guy has a girl not the same as your situation

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 09/19/07 03:18 PM
One of the reasons I like being where I am. Love em all, but no attachment. God this So. Co. is good for my throat.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Wed 09/19/07 03:36 PM
this is a test of character

colleen1969 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 11	Wed 09/19/07 11:18 PM
He probably has a crush on you too. Men rarely want to be "Just friends" with a woman. I mean it does happen but because of their raging hormones...You know. They just arent like us. I have a few men that are totally just friends. But sometimes they still make little remarks every now and again. If I were you I wouldnt tell him. I'm sure he knows. Let nature take its course, let him think hes in control.

YeaBigsexy Joined Wed 07/04/07 Posts: 6391	Wed 09/19/07 11:21 PM
Watch!!!!!!! Im gonna pee on someones head!!!! ! ! ! ! ! !!!!!

lizardking19 Joined Wed 08/15/07 Posts: 1278	Fri 09/21/07 07:42 AM
WTF that was random bigsexy well u could just bide ur time waiting till his current gf treats him like crap then u could could b all "its ok im there 4 u" which could lead to a makeout session Guys do this all the time

CrystalClear Joined Fri 06/22/07 Posts: 2228	Fri 09/21/07 08:26 AM
This reminds me of "My Best Friend's Wedding". It really does suck, but I don't think there's a right or wrong here. It's easier to SAY that you should do the logical, which is back off, but it's not as easy to do it. Only you know what works best for you emotionally and if and when you are ready to move on. It is an experience that you will have to ride thru. (Then let us know what happened)

bluebell Joined Mon 10/30/06 Posts: 1803	Fri 09/21/07 08:51 AM
Be there done that before and actually its still going, my current friend, he will text me morning, afternoon and night and he recently got married. We havent done anything wrong but as the days go by it hurts less. Good luck to you

celticricket Joined Sat 06/23/07 Posts: 2982	Fri 09/21/07 03:08 PM
thanks for all your replies. i appreciate your input.

Quake3 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1661	Fri 09/21/07 04:18 PM
it would be "emotional suicide" if I met some one I really liked and She was hitched I'd drop it like a hot potato.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 09/21/07 06:19 PM
Ok you got 20 "no,s". That's no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That should take care of that.