Since there has been so much brought up lately
in the threads about the online scammers,
the unscrupulous people & the tangled webs
of deceit they weave, all the disrespectful
messages and actions, the lies & treachery
the extent that some people go through
to obtain their dark demonic results ...

I thought we could keep this post open
to keep in contact one another for moral support..

First of all,
we need to notify Mike and Vanchau immediately
and let them know about the messages & behavior,
so they can deal with them properly.
That is the way they want it done...

however, I see nothing wrong with exposing it online,
without giving explicit details on the public forums,
and we can let each other know in private emails
and in other subtle ways of who to beware of.


I wish I could teach a class to help women
have more self confidence and self esteem
and to be better equipped to see thru
the lies of the vicious human predators...
This is a passionate topic for me...

Feedback, Please???

Vanessa...

I wish you could too. This is NOT going to sound right, but I am going to say it anyway. There are so many nice, loving, vunerable women out there that crave affection, attention and love from a man that they are become victims. Men prey on innocent women. I wish something could be done to expose them....

I agree with you on that, but to be honest, the same thing happens to men too. We get taken advantage of as well. I am all for exposing the scammers, though, both men and women.

I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to imply that it does not happen to men. I just think that in general that women are more vunerable to it happening. I'm sorry cvaughn if I at all insulted you.

Puffins. thank you my dear sister and kindred spirit...

Too much sadness, too much meanness, it just makes me sad.................

Cvaughn,

I don't think you were referring to what Puffins said..

I started the thread, so I will take the blame...

Please forgive me....
I was wrong in being so gender specific.
This is a thread for us to expose scammers period...
male and female alike...

I have watched men friends of mine get scammed so that works both ways.

I get spammed by women pretty much daily....the most worn out button on my keyboard is delete...

Snuggles....


I know dear lady..It's so sad cry:

Tthat's why we need to address it head on...

That which is done in the dark
wants it to stay in the dark ...

We can be wise and not fall victim...

We can beat them at their game...
once we understand their tactics....

Vanessa, I'm Lisa

This would be wonderful if we could do it!! BUT!!
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So as long as we stayed in the guide lines...

I figure I'm open & honest with everybody, so if I see somebody that isn't playing nice I'll say something & sometimes I come off as really harsh or rude oh well!
I use to be in here alot more than I have been & I don't play in the meat market but I've seen & heard the track record of many & any of the guys on my friends list I'll speak up for.


even the boy toys!!

& not just guys Gurls too!!!