Sex before marriage.?

Goodlookinguy with no photo, makes perfect sense

Why? What's the purpose? Is sex that important you can't wait for marriage? Why spoil the beauty and the sentimental side of sexual intercourse? That's one of the "reasons" for marriage if you will I guess is the way to explain it lol. That's what makes it "special" and beautiful, mixed with many great loving emotions. Makes it beautiful knowing you've given all of you to this person you care tremendously about knowing they've done the same eg., saving themselves for each other.

How romantic, special, or meaningful is it truly knowing you're possibly the 5th 10th or any possible number to be with that person in that way?

Very well said

good experiency

I believe sex is a big part of any relationship. There is alot of things you can learn about your partner through sex as well as it is great for relieving stress. It may not be the biggest part of a successful relationship, but it does matter. What if you find out that your partner can't satisfy you or vice-versa? You can put off your "true love overcomes all" pipe dreams but if you waited until marriage to find out there is a big problem, then you got problems. What if one of you has a hardcore sex drive and the other doesn't? In that case he/she better pick it up or that could drive a wedge in the relationship, and ladies, you can't give a man what he wants, he will eventually get it somewhere else.

It can be just as special if you make it special. And the think of how much more special you could make it if you actually knew what you were doing because you have had practice. This is not the year 1600, and a woman isn't "used up" because she had sex with somebody else before you. That is a rather shallow attitude.

So what you're saying is the person would inevitably love sex more then their spouse, that they even possibly married? How selfish is that? Why would sex have anything to do with the relationship in itself? Or do you only look for a woman that can please you physically rather then emotionally?

Sex is as natural as eating, breathing, sleeping. Why do some people let themselves be bothered by what others do? It's no good trying to push your own beliefs onto others. If two people want to rip each others clothes off, in the privacy of their own home, who am I to tell them to stop? Anyway, it's none of ANYONE'S business really. It's just that I don't think it would be practical for me, to wait until I was married. Women and men aren't really all that different. I can only wait so many years before I feel like I need some. And not forgetting, but have you ever thought about this? Some of us have abnormal levels of eostrogen in our blood, so it's inevitable I'd like lots of sex. And while you may suggest I take something to lessen the eostrogen levels, well I quite like myself as I am. So I'm not gonna change that, just because some think it's not very womanly to love sex. Sheesh. Give me a break. Women want sex MUCH more than they let on. Which is why I choose to mention it in the first place. They like it AS MUCH as men do. True story.