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It takes a very long time to trust again, give yourself time to learn to love yourself first and to move on Trust what again? What were you trusting in the first place? That somebody owed you something when you opened your legs for them? That's just not how it is. Well, I trusted my husband not to abuse me or my kids... didn't your mama ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all? |
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I agree it is probably more about trusting myself, maybe I should have expressed myself better. I was forced to be very non-confrontational. I wasn't really allowed to have opinions or even feelings of my own. If it wasn't what he thought it was stupid or crazy or not normal.
So, maybe I should have said ... how do I trust myself to be true to myself and not cave in just to avoid confrontation or judgement? |
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Trust what again? What were you trusting in the first place? That somebody owed you something when you opened your legs for them? That's just not how it is. start by ignoring that...it doesn't even make sense. don't be goaded into argument by irrelevant statements. i would assume she was trusting a feller to provide her with protection from harm and help with life in exchange for "opening her legs" instead of rude talk and an *** whoopin. BUT: if you don't posses the wherewithal to leave a bad situation, don't date. if you cannot give another a fair shake because you are constantly on the defensive, again, don't date. it makes a budding romance wither real quick. |
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If you've been in a long term abusive relationship, how do you know who and how to trust? Especially when you're trying online dating for the first time! Call the NSA. Those dudes can tell you anything about anyone. Heck...they will go back to when you were in kindergarten and you made sweet little Alison eat a booger. And I am in no way saying that it was me who made Alison do that. 
 You do have a point... 
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If you've been in a long term abusive relationship, how do you know who and how to trust? Especially when you're trying online dating for the first time! Call the NSA. Those dudes can tell you anything about anyone. Heck...they will go back to when you were in kindergarten and you made sweet little Alison eat a booger. And I am in no way saying that it was me who made Alison do that.
You do have a point...
I actually know someone who ran a full background check on this girl. I mean....he went all out.
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It takes a very long time to trust again, give yourself time to learn to love yourself first and to move on Well put and spot on. |
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