Topic: I dont know what's wrong with me..
stephen84usa's photo
Mon 04/28/14 08:55 PM
Edited by stephen84usa on Mon 04/28/14 08:57 PM
I am such a shy dude when I am around women.. I mean, I saw this drop dead gorgeous woman jogging, she smiled at me and said hi, i smiled back at her and said hi... but then she just kept jogging away.. That could've been my future right there. I am so shy, that I dont usually say anything unless someone says something to me. I dont know how to break out of it. I mean, its so easy online, I met all my girlfriends online and all them had some serious issues but in person for the first time when its not from online, its so much tougher. I dont know what to do. I need to find a woman soon or i am gonna crumble real fast. I dont know how to overcome this shyness outside of the internet.

dreamerana's photo
Mon 04/28/14 09:05 PM
I thought we were focusing on being positive.

Winlei's photo
Mon 04/28/14 09:15 PM

I am such a shy dude when I am around women.. I mean, I saw this drop dead gorgeous woman jogging, she smiled at me and said hi, i smiled back at her and said hi... but then she just kept jogging away.. That could've been my future right there. I am so shy, that I dont usually say anything unless someone says something to me. I dont know how to break out of it. I mean, its so easy online, I met all my girlfriends online and all them had some serious issues but in person for the first time when its not from online, its so much tougher. I dont know what to do. I need to find a woman soon or i am gonna crumble real fast. I dont know how to overcome this shyness outside of the internet.

You know i feel the same way you do everytime i see my crush. But if this girl you saw felt the same she will eventually jog everyday just to see you even if theres no communication yet. Later on you will have the courage to talk to her.

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Mon 04/28/14 10:06 PM
Well everyone is different but I'm like that too. If I meet girls with the goal of becoming romantic with them, I have trouble thinking of things to say to them and get nervous too. However I found that if I meet girls with the goal of just meeting someone new and making a new friend it takes the pressure off. So maybe next time you see that girl jog past, maybe just ask her if she would like a jogging partner and if she agrees you can get to know her and just see how things go.

no1phD's photo
Mon 04/28/14 10:39 PM
.. we're going to have to start charging you pretty soon dude..hi..laugh

pkh's photo
Mon 04/28/14 10:41 PM

.. we're going to have to start charging you pretty soon dude..hi..laugh
lol to cute