Been in a relationship for 3 years now with a girl I love and adore,I don't feel like the feeling mutural anymore.we have recently gone through a difficult patch and she ended up losing her job and I wasent able to efford everything alone,so we both living back at are perents.which is difficult .we are now trying 2 get are selfs new jobs ect,she has become detached and unafectionate.thisis understandable considering.but I worry she has detached herself so much that things won't sort out .should I just let things play out everything can't be nice n happy all the time,hay?

Rarely are 2 people on the same wavelength at the same time.
What CAN be the same, is the commitment level.

If you have that, you can outwait most bad patches.
If not, tis a learning experience for the next relationship.

personally i feel like you would be better served having this conversation with here and not complete strangers. surly her point of view means more to you than ours, no?

well you know what thay say.If you love her set her free. If she comes back nobody ells wanted her eather.JK dude.hang in there.

.. well at least you didn't do! what so many people do! in that circumstance...
.. ask her to marry you..lol..jk.. sounds like she just needs a reminder.. that there are more important things in life.. then where you live and your job. what's important is your relationship. and if you can be there for one another..
.. that's the question you need to ask.. can you be there for me can I be there for you.

This...

Thanks that it, the commitment.that's whats slipped.mayb will change with better times.if not tis lesson lernt.

Well, that explains a lot.

I always thought, if you can't get along, kick her out.

If noone else wants her, she's yours.