Topic: What A I Doing Wrong?
Alamingle's photo
Mon 04/21/14 01:33 PM
I have been a member of this site for over a year and
have tried communicating with ladies I find interesting.
Generally, the response has been disheartening. Its not because
I don't know how to approach someone politely. I do.
Is there some special way to approach a lady online?

mightymoe's photo
Mon 04/21/14 01:39 PM
yes, it's called "being yourself"...if a woman doesn't like that, then they are not worth it anyway...

no photo
Mon 04/21/14 01:42 PM
I've just looked at your profile and I found it to be pleasant and polite.
I wish you well.
Good things come to he who waits

no photo
Mon 04/21/14 01:47 PM
Many people here have a strong romantic notion that rules their lives. Maybe a bit more pragmatism will serve everyone well? If they do not want u, don't give it a second thought. Just move on.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 04/21/14 02:57 PM
It is not like a menu at a fast-food place.
It operates the same way it does on the
outside (of the internet.)

It is a tool..to help.
Hope it works for you :-)

no1phD's photo
Mon 04/21/14 03:02 PM
.. as in real estate
. the same. can be said about dating.
. location, location,location...

..lmiao... laughing my infill. *** off.
..lol..

cococabeza's photo
Mon 04/21/14 06:40 PM
Now if nigeria were just next door...
no more lonely people. Lol

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 04/21/14 07:14 PM

I have been a member of this site for over a year and
have tried communicating with ladies I find interesting.
Generally, the response has been disheartening. Its not because
I don't know how to approach someone politely. I do.
Is there some special way to approach a lady online?



Well, I notice that you haven't disclosed your marital status. I can't speak for other people but that always puts me off when I view a profile.

no photo
Tue 04/22/14 03:54 AM
What am I doing wrong?


I have been a member of this site for over a year and
have tried communicating with ladies I find interesting.
Generally, the response has been disheartening. Its not because
I don't know how to approach someone politely. I do.
Is there some special way to approach a lady online?


Hi alamingle, welcome to the boards.

You are a long term member yet a first time poster.

If you have tried communicating with women here, I assume by email or IMing, and been disheartened by their responses, then perhaps you could begin interacting on the forums so women can develop their impressions and interest in you over time and experience.

As for special ways to approach a lady online, well, we are all different and what one likes and finds romantic or endearing another doesn't.

In your post you don't specify what you're looking for in or from the women that interest you enough to make contact, so maybe your unclear intentions need some clarification.

no photo
Tue 04/22/14 10:26 AM
Two of your pictures look fake. The one taken by the sea looks real so try that as your main picture. There are a lot of scammers going about . So everybody is on guard at the moment.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 04/22/14 08:53 PM

Two of your pictures look fake. The one taken by the sea looks real so try that as your main picture. There are a lot of scammers going about . So everybody is on guard at the moment.


Who knew a dude in a scary hockey mask could be so enlightened? Oh yeah...he carries a machete....better heed his words of wisdom. laugh