I met a wonderful man on line. I moved from Pa to SC and low and behold he had lived close to me in Pa. Go figure. We were so close to each other while being far apart. Sadly he passed away a year ago. I am so thankful that he was part of my life. It still gives me hope that you can find my soul mate in my golden years. I was 60 years old when we met and he was worth the wait.

Sure but I think most people are not open minded enough to relate to people on this site due to the fact they that value appearance first more than a persons substance. It's what is in the heart that really matters. I maybe wrong but that's my opinion.

Sure but I think most people are not open minded enough to relate to people on this site due to the fact they that value appearance first more than a persons substance. It's what is in the heart that really matters. I maybe wrong but that's my opinion.

To add to that, real and honest peeps are hard to find, on line or not.

One day I went to the gym and I realized that it is not for me – I laid down on the mat to do some exercises and …
I woke up two hours later.
and you see
Women have a lot of faults, while men have only 2 – everything that they do and everything that they say.

I definitely agree with your assessment!! Especially anyone who is close to the area you are in!!

Well said. It takes a lot of mutual respect.

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Sure but I think most people are not open minded enough to relate to people on this site due to the fact they that value appearance first more than a persons substance. It's what is in the heart that really matters. I maybe wrong but that's my opinion.

I totally agree with the above statement. So many want a pic. don't understand that when conversation going so well.I have been told no pic no talk!
does one engage in looks or the mind. I believe the mind and personality. looks help not the end all be all.

I have seen many not so nice guys with really nice women who have been treated like dirt! I've seen attractive and the other unattractive happier than crap . Go figure.

Of course...I'm just saving the best for last

Nobody ever finds their soul mate, they create one.

Exactly

Thanks buttonandbows. Why can't someone meet a soul mate on line?

There must be something wrong with me and my approach, to women....all I meet are playmates....but then who is really looking for something that barely exists...just saying..

Anything is possible of course but let me weigh in briefly.
Some people define Soulmate differently. In my book, it is an ultimate end for a love relationship and extremely rare. In my life, I have been in love 6 times but never achieved Soulmate. You could have a non romantic soulmate but a romantic one would be the best. It is a worthy goal to work towards...and btw I am willing...LOL

Has anyone checked with the Vegas bookmakers to see what the odds are of meeting your soul mate online?

I tend to agree with you Jane..most of the replies that I have gotten are short,and pretty meaningless.I have had more credible contacts from Craigslist than I have here.The women that I've met on craigslist haven't worked out either,but at least they call,or give me a number.
The women here seem to be too afraid to actually make contact,and really in my opinion this is a waste of time for the most part..Good luck,and write back if you want..

I think you are right..I have been called a troll,(whatever that is)because I don't have a picture here. I have found that most of the replies that I have gotten have been shallow,and without much value..I know online dating is popular,but it is a pretty large waste of time.
You wouldn't think it would be that hard to meet people online,and possibly it might just be me,but I'm not going to bet on this site at all for actually meeting someone. You might have a better idea..

I believe it is pretty unlikely...I have done online dating for many years....SAME faces .,,,on every site....I believe it is a vreat catalogue shopping venue..

It has been the same for me..I spend the time to try to write something of interest,and get a three word reply...I would talk with you if you would talk back.

I think the maximum number is 150