Topic: question..please help. thank you
dreamerana's photo
Sat 04/12/14 12:34 PM
I was just glancing at some comments in the forums. And there are a couple where friend seemsto mean more than just friendship. Not being familiar with dating terminology, when I say I'm looking for friendship is that implying something different? Thank you in advance for responding.

soufiehere's photo
Sat 04/12/14 12:41 PM
No, it means what you think it means.

It is like using the word 'love' in here.
It may mean someone just really likes you, in
a cyber-world kind of way.

Or, maybe they really DO love you, though without
having met you in person, that can be more of a
hopeful thing.

Some people can even throw the word 'friend' around
when they really mean acquaintance.

I would assume the best and let go the rest :-)

2469nascar's photo
Sat 04/12/14 12:43 PM
no i think friends mean freinds. hangin out together.going to the movies.walkin in the park.doing what ever to friends like to do. sex is only a option. just kidding.you can never have to many true friends right?

dreamerana's photo
Sat 04/12/14 03:19 PM
Thank you Soufie and NASCAR. I'm new to all this and just wanted to make sure I understand. And you're right you can never have too many friends. Thank you for taking the time.flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 04/12/14 04:40 PM

No, it means what you think it means.

It is like using the word 'love' in here.
It may mean someone just really likes you, in
a cyber-world kind of way.

Or, maybe they really DO love you, though without
having met you in person, that can be more of a
hopeful thing.

Some people can even throw the word 'friend' around
when they really mean acquaintance.

I would assume the best and let go the rest :-)


^ This

as stated by the voice of experience on here. Myself being almost as experienced, I think Soufie is right on.

But. I am a FEmale....guys are another breed...you friend? they have your clothes off...you LOOK at them...they're guessing what color sheets you have...so, let it mean to you what it does mean to you. You still might have to explain to the aliens later....:tongue:


sorry guyz..yanno I lurves ya:tongue: just a little joshin'flowerforyou laugh

no photo
Sat 04/12/14 06:38 PM
Yeah, to me if I say I'm looking for friendship, sex is off the table. But it seems to mean a challenge to some guys. And probably some women too, to be fair.

2469nascar's photo
Sat 04/12/14 06:51 PM

Yeah, to me if I say I'm looking for friendship, sex is off the table. But it seems to mean a challenge to some guys. And probably some women too, to be fair.
Thank you for bein fair

no photo
Sat 04/12/14 07:08 PM

Yeah, to me if I say I'm looking for friendship, sex is off the table. But it seems to mean a challenge to some guys. And probably some women too, to be fair.

now see to me it does NOT mean that sex is off the table

I cannot imagine sexual interactions with someone who is not a friend alresdywaving

Whozurdaddy's photo
Sun 04/13/14 06:19 PM

Yeah, to me if I say I'm looking for friendship, sex is off the table. But it seems to mean a challenge to some guys. And probably some women too, to be fair.


I agree with this ladys opinion. I'm in College where social intercourse is a necessity and in some cases a survival skill. I make lady friends regularly and they with I. Trading ideas, thoughts, patterns of effective approach to problems and jokes and personal problems just comes with the territory.

Imo, if people get hung up and sex is a problem then maybe the problem isn't sex, but them and how they view it.

Just saying....

mksatggn's photo
Mon 04/14/14 04:12 AM
Friendship is the more versatile feeling than sex. Sex is easier to have than a FRIEND.