Does he have to drag her cuz she can't walk?

Edited for disparaging other members.
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soufie
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soufie
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.....I'M BACK.....
.. TO destiny is yours...
.. please accept my most humble apologies.. I was truly only trying to make.. light of a very heavy topic..
.. I have 4 sisters myself.. and sometimes we do not see eye to eye.
.. but we are always able to work out our differences.
... as I stated before.. you just need to sit down with your brother.
.. me being a brother to four sisters... I may have a little insight.
..hmm... just explain to him how you are feeling.
.. outside of that.
. I have nothing more to say..
. sincerely PhD..
... or if you prefer
......No.1......

I reckon, if I spent a boatload-o-dough on my idiot in-laws, I should have the right to insist they buzz off and leave me alone with my sister.

No matter how it's put, it comes across as perverse and controlling.

If I don't want in-laws around, I call em and tell em off.

Makie no bones about it.

No, you are not wrong. It's a personal choice, it can't be wrong. People change at puberty and move away from family, particularly parents. It is called differentiation. That is how we learn to figure out who we are and become our own people. Marriage and kids become the priority after that. Was there problems at home, was he unhappy, was there something he was running away from? What do you get out of your relationship with your brother that you are pursuing? Can you get those needs met somewhere else?