Is there a new set of guidelines for someone like myself who has not been searching for a life partner for a long time, I am in my mid 30's and am new once again to looking for and successfully finding my partner for life!? I am new to the whole dating thing again and as for dating sites....I think that my age explains that...lol. I am young at heart but that, I don't think, counts in the new ways of finding and dating the right person, I am a little old fashioned...back in my day I went out to meet woman and I would talk on the phone with people not this new way, dating sites, cyber dating, messaging and texts! lol Maybe I am too old fashioned...!!??

.. well grandma...lol.. 30 is the new 20...
... and yes online dating definitely works... your good natured fun self comes across....
.. just remember there are a few rules... well my rules....#1... if they sound too good to be true... they are..
#2.. always meet for coffee first.. with the understanding.. if its not a connection.. you politely have your coffee.. and then go your separate ways... no hard feelings..
.#3.. be patient it may take a while.
..#4.. disregard all the idiot..
.#5.. join in on the forums... if they have them... it helps with your communication skills... and to boost up your confidence...
#6.. remember what you type:.. stays on that virtual.. note for ever... for the whole world to see...
.#7.. have fun..
#8.. don't mislead or be misled by people... use your common sense... do not suspend reality...
#8.. everyone will always offer an opinion.. right or wrong... but they are entitled to their opinion...


.. thats all I got for now... go get him or her girl.....
. I am sure others will add to this list...ps..#1.. does not apply to me... I'm just fabulous..lol

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Thanks for your words of wisdom to the "Grandma" lol ! I appreciate you taking the time to write back!! Have a great day and I won't quit yet, I will still search the woman of my dreams!
One question: Why 2 number 8's? Just joking lol