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Their is this lady(my student), very pretty. She is older than me(may be five years gap), and fair in complexion. She's my kind of lady. But my problem is that I don't know how to start by telling this lady that I like her. I invited her once at my place bcoz of something she wanted me to help her with. At my place I had the opportunities to tell her what I feel for her but couldn't make use of it. Some of the opportunities were kind of sexual passes she was making at me. Like for example: she let's her laps touch mine whenever she's by my side;raising her blouse up a little so that I would see her underwear;and also calling me Chi, a kind of a pet name.
My problem now is that I'm not sure what this lady want from me;or what she might say when I inform her about my feelings for her. Please if you are reading this,I really need your advice. |
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Ask her out on a date.....
Like would you like to go out with me.... If she ask where make sure you have some sort of a idea like maybe a place you can go out to eat have a few drinks and talk..... 
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Well first of all you should not be messing with your student- that is having a dual relationship and is unethical. But if you must: put in in situations which require her to show IOIs (indicators of Interest), then go where they lead you.
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Wait until she's not a student of yours anymore. If she still sends signals then go for it.
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Thanks
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Edited by
Learns2Rock
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Wed 03/26/14 05:11 PM
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Ask her out on a date..... Like would you like to go out with me.... If she ask where make sure you have some sort of a idea like maybe a place you can go out to eat have a few drinks and talk..... That's a good idea. I will try that. I appreciate |
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.. easy peasy.. sounds like she's easy.. she's already open the door for you you just have to walk in.. man up..lol
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.. easy peasy.. sounds like she's easy.. she's already open the door for you you just have to walk in.. man up..lol Please! Am a gentle man,I can't "just walk in". I think its step by step. |
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Opps did not catch the part she was a student of yours....
Now my first thought is why was she at your house and if she is your student how old is she??? |
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Dude tell her, if u don't u will lose her!!!!!!
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.. try to take it slow right like she's doing! laps? kissing you showing you her underwear.yeah sounds like she wants to take it slow...lol
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You will look very unprofessional. Why not wait til youre no longer teacher/student. You say they are older but also that you teach 'youth in skill acquisition' so not sure what that means. Is she actually older than you or is that a language error? Yes she's older than me,and yes I teach in skills acquisition centre. And in that place we teach both young and old people who want to acquire skills. |
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You answered it for me so go for it like I said on the first post
 Sounds like to me she has gave you several hints she is interested already..... |
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Edited by
Maria195
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Wed 03/26/14 08:14 PM
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I think it will make you bad if you ask her now. It doesn't matter if she show you her underwear, her boobs or wherever. You don't know what really her intentions are...
what about if is one of those funny case where the student will star trouble and tell others you RAPE her? then what you're going to do? Loose your job, your license and might go to jail? I think you should wait. Until the School year is over. |
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;) Opportunist - once you get a teacher hooked, then it's a passing grade from there.
"As long as you ride on this 'D' ; I'll give you an 'Ace+' ..." They don't call it easy A for nothing! |
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Their is this lady(my student), very pretty. She is older than me(may be five years gap), and fair in complexion. She's my kind of lady. But my problem is that I don't know how to start by telling this lady that I like her. I invited her once at my place bcoz of something she wanted me to help her with. At my place I had the opportunities to tell her what I feel for her but couldn't make use of it. Some of the opportunities were kind of sexual passes she was making at me. Like for example: she let's her laps touch mine whenever she's by my side;raising her blouse up a little so that I would see her underwear;and also calling me Chi, a kind of a pet name. My problem now is that I'm not sure what this lady want from me;or what she might say when I inform her about my feelings for her. Please if you are reading this,I really need your advice. don't tell her you like her, just ask her out... never, ever, ever tell a woman you like her, not always a happy ending... |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Wed 03/26/14 10:32 PM
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Get her in the same situation again and have a break and then tell her
You have been going through an identity crisis and you thing that you may be gay but your not sure. Then she will say "what do you mean your are not sure, does this not attract you" as she lays back in the chair and shows a high leg and you take your time and have a long look and tell her you don't know if you would like it but you would like to try with SOME woman SOMETIME soon. So yes Moe's right..don't tell her you like her, tell her she might repulse you and she will assure you that wont be the case and you tell her that you don't know and doubt her skills  And make sure you tape her coming on to you 'your the victim here! Emotionally distraught about your sexsuality! We are sick of been victims!  Let us know how it goes  |
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Their is this lady(my student), very pretty. She is older than me(may be five years gap), and fair in complexion. She's my kind of lady. But my problem is that I don't know how to start by telling this lady that I like her. I invited her once at my place bcoz of something she wanted me to help her with. At my place I had the opportunities to tell her what I feel for her but couldn't make use of it. Some of the opportunities were kind of sexual passes she was making at me. Like for example: she let's her laps touch mine whenever she's by my side;raising her blouse up a little so that I would see her underwear;and also calling me Chi, a kind of a pet name. My problem now is that I'm not sure what this lady want from me;or what she might say when I inform her about my feelings for her. Please if you are reading this,I really need your advice. Yes, Aski her out! If you feel she's giving you signs.... Be respectful and pleasant. Ask her to go for drinks or lunch. This way if you have misread her and she doesn't feel that way about you. You could still do lunch and there is no offense to her and you can hold your head up either way. |
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Opps did not catch the part she was a student of yours.... Now my first thought is why was she at your house and if she is your student how old is she??? She's around 34,35 |
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Dude tell her, if u don't u will lose her!!!!!! Thanks Dude. Sincerely speaking,I really don't want to lose her. |
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