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Topic: letsss get real
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Mon 03/24/14 09:21 AM

ya'll make me look at myself in a different light but i know how i am and what i want. i was married to a very abusive man for a lot of years and i just can't take that kind of pain anymore. to me being serious isn't a plus but a minus in the dating pool. if you've been there you'd understand


Funny you say these things. I was in fact in an abusive relationship. Unlike you, I have chosen to learn from it and not get stuck in it. So before you judge all of those responding to your thread, maybe a good hard look in the mirror is required. Throw all your anger at those that deserve it and not those here trying to understand the purpose of your postings.

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Mon 03/24/14 10:41 AM


ya'll make me look at myself in a different light but i know how i am and what i want. i was married to a very abusive man for a lot of years and i just can't take that kind of pain anymore. to me being serious isn't a plus but a minus in the dating pool. if you've been there you'd understand


Funny you say these things. I was in fact in an abusive relationship. Unlike you, I have chosen to learn from it and not get stuck in it. So before you judge all of those responding to your thread, maybe a good hard look in the mirror is required. Throw all your anger at those that deserve it and not those here trying to understand the purpose of your postings.


I'm very sorry to hear about this part of your past BNJ, but I'm so happy you got yourself out of the situation. flowerforyou

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Mon 03/24/14 10:55 AM



ya'll make me look at myself in a different light but i know how i am and what i want. i was married to a very abusive man for a lot of years and i just can't take that kind of pain anymore. to me being serious isn't a plus but a minus in the dating pool. if you've been there you'd understand


Funny you say these things. I was in fact in an abusive relationship. Unlike you, I have chosen to learn from it and not get stuck in it. So before you judge all of those responding to your thread, maybe a good hard look in the mirror is required. Throw all your anger at those that deserve it and not those here trying to understand the purpose of your postings.


I'm very sorry to hear about this part of your past BNJ, but I'm so happy you got yourself out of the situation. flowerforyou


Thank you NorCal flowerforyou

I am good though and know where my anger needs to be thrown. I just get a little upset when people use this as an excuse for anything. Just get over it, move on and see the beauty life has to offer.

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Mon 03/24/14 11:41 AM

i don't want t talk to someone thousands of miles away.

how about hundreds of miles ?
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