how about we just call it . swollen passionflower...

That sounds good.... but it swells when it gets attention. lol

ok tender swollen passionflower...
when you've had enough...
swollen passionflower...
when you're ready..
for me to come off my knees please.
Ohhhh. pretty please on bended knee...hmm

As long as I feel you have done a good job....THEN you can get off your knees...

yeah probably not a good idea;)

mmmmm...is this what to expect as I get older?

I'll start preparing now.

no its not normal u need some that can stay ready for u

hello all ..... as per me .... sex is sex .... a basic need ....just like food .... there is nothing like less or more ...just that different people feel content in different ways, different things and different doses - just like hunger. and trust me, that's the way nature made sex ....it's we who have put so much limits and dos n DONTs over centuries ...

so basically missionary for you..^^^lol

Up to a certain age i think it is for women

Science says that a man's sexual appetite and vitality peak from 18-25 but, hell, I'm 44 and have never had this much of an appetite. From some of the posts on here, I'd say there are other men in the same boat.

would luv to find a nice girl to enjoy it with... happy to please

Age has gotten too an influence over SEX Drive and need to prepare for a sex encounter. You don't just get up with your partner and go straight making love without preparing minds.'

I watched Don Jon yesterday, and I think it applies here. I think in youth people tend to fashion their idea of 'sex' by the media and what they have seen there. They tend to focus a lot on what they NEED instead of what they should GIVE.

I think age makes (some) people wiser with experience, and they learn its a 2 way deal and start to think more about what they need to GIVE and not just what they get from the activity. I think with this wisdom, sex gets better but its also valued more as part of the BALANCE of life and not something we cant get 'enough' of.

Between 25-50years there is still a lot sex drive only few can have less sex drive. It's said are the best time and high peaks to enjoy sex.

Then where is the spontaneity?

I truly hope I don't always have to 'prepare' my mind in order to have sex. Sometimes it's just fun to do it, without all the mental stuff that goes with it....Although the mental part is nice of course, but sometimes that raw animal instinct needs to come out...

Yes you are right. My best moment is when I'm in with my partner and not in what I get from her out of Sex. I love it.

In the most encounters we need mental health too. Coz u may want it now and she wants morrow. What do u then do? Cos if u insists u gonna enjoy but she won't. Two way traffic

You need someone with equal drive as well as stamina... also be creative in the bedroom.....

hmmm...I find it's getting better, or maybe that's cause I get it so infrequent that when I do get it I am so appreciative I don't care how good it was