Topic: why can't guys stop talking about sex in this site? i want t
diogo94's photo
Sat 04/05/14 08:35 PM
heyyyyyyyyyy

Mirage4279's photo
Sun 04/06/14 10:28 PM
I never talk about sex on this site... I do more talking about sex when I get totally smashed and chat online than I do any other time combinedblushing

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Mon 04/07/14 02:43 AM
Hi
This is not to talk about anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. How do you look at life?

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Mon 04/07/14 03:05 AM

Everytime, I know a guy. They are all after sex. At first they talkmok and when they start talking dirty, I'm disappointed. But there's one who never really mentioned sex in our conversation but he suddenly disappeared. Urgghhh;-(


I'm not sure what "dirty" means. If you consider sex, in general, to be dirty that could be a problem for you later on. My point is there is a difference between discussing sex in an open manner vs tailoring the conversation so the guy can get off on line.

If you encounter the latter, the guy going on and on with erotic chat, explain to him you prefer those conversations to take place in person.

This is a dating site. People have a list of things/qualities they seek in a partner but many of them are negotiable. For example, one may seek a person who has a good job but may settle for one who is currently in university and working part time.

One thing that's never negotiable is the sex of the individual unless the person is bi-sexual so, yes, sex is the most important thing. So when sexual conversations arise you can answer basic questions without getting into detailed, erotic conversations. Just explain that to the guy and if he doesn't comply put him on ignore.

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Mon 04/07/14 12:16 PM
hi babs

TBRich's photo
Mon 04/07/14 03:14 PM
Oh come on now- I have had a hard on in over two years, without the help of a little pill. Which I don't like taking- you know how many women have stopped calling me?

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Mon 04/07/14 03:21 PM
I don't know why....but everytime I see this topic. I keep having the song, "Sex" by George Micheal pop into my head. Then it goes worse to that Color Me Badd song " I Wanna Sex You Up".laugh

lonelyman3036's photo
Mon 04/07/14 03:30 PM
Sadly a lot of men on here are players. its just a numbers game to them, proposition enough women and one will respond.
I'm just a flirt.

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Mon 04/07/14 08:52 PM


Sadly a lot of men on here are players. its just a numbers game to them, proposition enough women and one will respond.
I'm just a flirt.

too bad we cant block them from threads.

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Mon 04/07/14 08:54 PM


Sadly a lot of men on here are players. its just a numbers game to them, proposition enough women and one will respond.
I'm just a flirt.

too bad we cant block them from threads.

don't hate the player hate the game!
You know I'm just kidding

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Tue 04/08/14 03:52 AM
They you are wasting the time in nonsense ...............Try to chat with whom where can have fun

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Tue 04/08/14 05:03 AM
I just think that it's counterproductive. Even the women on here that are just looking for that go on about "creeps" sending them inappropriate messages. Personally, I don't really have a problem finding other things to talk about with women that I've got stuff in common with but that's taken years of spending time with women in the real world. I like the sex as much as anybody but I'm at the stage now where I'm actually turning down women that I'm not feeling a deeper connection with. At the end of the day though, I get on better with women that I feel comfortable with and that I can talk about anything with, including sex, without them getting an atitude about me doing that.

blesly's photo
Tue 04/08/14 11:14 PM
I hate it whn dey go like ,hey cn we hav sex, asin how?dats like stupid

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Tue 04/08/14 11:29 PM
hey iam not that kind of guy you can chat with me if u want to chat

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Wed 04/09/14 02:13 AM
Someone who is unhappy with present life will look into these sites for a friend or for a sex partner, if everything is good and busy in our life's then why we need these site

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Wed 04/09/14 02:25 AM
Hey..did we meet before personally???

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Wed 04/09/14 03:12 AM

I hate it whn dey go like ,hey cn we hav sex, asin how?dats like stupid


I know what you mean but these days a lot of people think that it's really important that women consent to it. I keep copies of all of my emails in the eventuality that I might have to rely on them in court.

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Wed 04/09/14 03:17 AM
are hard wired for sex. The innate need to procreate. Women are too but they are wired to mate with the strongest to ensure survival of themselves and children. Guy's are just uncouth and more upfront whereas women...don't deny it...are more demure, but want/need sex almost as bad. Yall can argue with me..but yall can't argue with the facts..!pitchfork flowerforyou frustrated

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Wed 04/09/14 04:05 AM

When a woman starts out with sex talk i just send them a kick in the butt.but some weman thing thats just some kined of rednick four play. You gota love them gals from kentucky..LOL..



it's NOT redneck foreplay?!?!?!what surprised




flowers

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Wed 04/09/14 04:09 AM

are hard wired for sex. The innate need to procreate. Women are too but they are wired to mate with the strongest to ensure survival of themselves and children. Guy's are just uncouth and more upfront whereas women...don't deny it...are more demure, but want/need sex almost as bad. Yall can argue with me..but yall can't argue with the facts..!pitchfork flowerforyou frustrated


OK so provide some facts to argue with. just the FACT that you think you can speak for all men or any women says volumes.noway


there's a fact for you...lollaugh whoa