I dont know what girls actually want from men..is it yhe looks..intelligence. .a caring heart. ..supportive nature...or just money....what do they want........much bigger question is.....if there is anyway I could know about it

yeah all that stuff, plus they want you to sit through chick-flicks too...

Well why have a dog and bark yourself

They want men who don't need to ask this question and can figure it out for themselves.

Oh no! Not chick flicks!

funkyfranky I agree with you 100% cheers to you girl lol...give me high five I'm being sarcastic here




Vinu121212 We're not all the same, just like you men are not all the same thank God! We like to be love and love them too. In my opinion my men doesn't have to have millions of $$$ to get true my but I do like to have somebody mature and ready to settled down...not somebody old and act like a teen still...I never play with anybodies feelings and don't like when some men think they can play with mine.

As far as I'm concerned a well-rounded (not literally ), (emotionally) mature, balanced man.
Some things I find important:
Respectful, treats a woman as an equal (so not some dominant tyrant), takes responsibility for his actions and mistakes, is able to communicate, similar level of education/intelligence (not about talking diplomas), able and willing to make a commitment.

Just a few things that spring to mind. As you can see money isn't in that list, neither are looks. Sure good looks help, but is not the nr 1 point on the list. Hygiene, grooming and the wish to look after his body and health are important.

Yes

Women want u to be honest. If ur not into her anymore don't cheat just end it. Money only had to pay the bills. Looks May be important at first but after a while it's the emotional connection that counts.we just want someone who is true and honest and gives back what we do.

women want a man is generally the pilot, but also understands that she is a co-pilot and just as capable of stepping into the pilot role when needed, but most woman don't want the pilot role on a continuous bases, at least not any of the women I have ever been with.

Basically a man that leads, but understands she is just as capable to lead, but that she just doesn't want to be the leader all the time.

Looking for simple formulae to complex needs of others is not going to help as there is not a formula for all women as there isnt one for men either.Perhaps getting more acquainted with a variety of women may help your simplistic questiono.. regards

seems like some would know this... but i guess not...

Vinu, women aren't generic creatures with a collective intelligence. If you want to know what a particular woman likes in a man, ask. Really, you ask, that's what men do if they want to know.

But don't ask the cat about the dog or the dog about the bird, ask the bird about the bird and it can only tell you what that bird likes.
Each is individual.

This whole "war of the sexes" trip is meant to be satirical, humour, people who take it seriously identify themselves as a little too unevolved for adult relationships anyway, they just rut and argue and pea brained concepts are a descriptor of them.

So evolve, and start treating people like individuals. Don't just say, "yeah I believe in the rights of the individual" and then in the same breath ask, "so what do (all) women think about this..."
It's pea brained and kind of a descriptor of other ignorant ideas adults like to watch out for and avoid.

well said i'd say

Yeah, very well put, and if this don't work, just get yourself an imaginary friend, works for me

Yeah, couldn't agree with that more. I'm not going to feel all inadequate because some woman has a list of requirements that I don't match up to. Another woman could see something about me that she sees as part of my charm or apeal that the first one doesn't like and puts her off. Besides, a lot of women are actually full of it when they say what they're looking for and then you look at the guys that they go for.

It's just that a certain type of guy tends to atract a certain type of woman. I feel alright about my "imperfections" for the most part and I just find women that don't like them snooty or patronising, which is the last thing that I'm looking for.

I all your answers! Well done :)