Is there second chance in loving someone when you have loose your first love?

that is only something you can answer.. questioning whether you can implies you might not be ready yet..

after splitting up with my first love i thought of nothing else for years. no one else seemed to come close, no one else seemed to matter. there is always going to be opportunities for you to meet someone you can create a different kind of love with so don't fall for the same mistake I made in trying to find someone like the person you lost - because it's impossible and unfair on others to expect them to be someone they're not

instead, allow yourself to truly heal from the hurt and allow yourself to move on and be happy

love will find you again, sir, if you let it

most now seem to think a source of comfort is love…..