I can't even get laid. I'm stuck going through an involuntary sexless lent -- think the movie 40 Days 40 Nights but in my case giving up sex for lent isn't my choice. I also had sexless lents the last 3 yrs in a row (thankfully I wasnt celibate that whole time period but I did go through a year and a half of total sexual celibacy, not my choice, I was 60 lbs overswollen from nephritis and was physically handicapped from the excessive swelling in my legs).

I keep getting stood up. The farthest I got all year was an actual date, but I paid $65 for a sitter when im in huge debts, just to have the guy tell me he wouldn't be seeing me again because he wants marriage very soon and he doesnt see me to have marriage potential. Looking back, he wouldn't even go farther than a light kiss, pulled away when I tried to kiss goodbye. Oh and a while before that obviously unsuccessful date, I did meet a guy who I'd been talking to but he literally tried to grope me when my small child was in the same public area (oh heck no) and once I was alone with him he made it very obvious he was just looking for a quickie. I actually turned it down because I didn't feel like being a last minute cheap whore. He's a cop too. Oh and he never took me on an actual date either. But he's the closest ive gotten to a hookup in a while now. Every other guy has been totally frigid (where's the happy medium here??) or refuses to meet me or ditches out on me. The stand-ups are astronomically more frequent than the average girl gets...yes I looked up stats on it, because im a nerd and I had nothing better when I was stood up a few of those times.

I got stood up once. Then I found out a tree fell through his house. I forgave him lol we rescheduled and it was the most boring date ever.

My point? It is simply that things happen for a reason. Maybe I wasn't supposed to go out with the fella.

Relate this go ur own situation

YOU? Stood up? No way! What made the date boring? He or thee?