This site is bs...I just got stood up tonight. How bad is my appearance and personality that I can't even meet a guy? And 2 weeks before that, I had what was the biggest breakthrough all year from this site...an actual date! I spent $65 on a babysitter (even though I'm in a lot of debt), just to have the guy decide after only that one date that he wouldn't see himself marrying me and therefore would not want to see me again. I did nothing wrong, he just isn't into me. Wtf! I guess I should hang up my hat on wanting to get married. I haven't had a decent relationship in FIVE years wtf!!!

Not to mention that I haven't been laid in a long time and with the way things are going, I'll probably end up serving a "sexless lent" (like in the movie 40 Days 40 Nights) but NOT by my choice. This is bs!! All guys say that it's so easy for girls to get laid...that just makes me feel bad about myself!

really? after one try? Rome wasn't built in a day...


sorry, but get over it...

his loss. don't dwell on it, your time is better spent on more positive things.

girl some guys are complete a** holes.and make it so much harder on the next guy.but your not the only one getting your a** kicked out here! Iam so freakin tired of here weman saying how beat down thay are and thin wont give a real man a chance.hang in there girl.

Is it possible that maybe he was intimidated by worrying about marriage after just one date? True love is hard to find sometimes it takes awhile, don't give up hope you are a very lovely young woman and I'm sure some young man will be interested in you very soon, good luck in your search.

sorry. but this is the #1 reason why weman say in there profiles IAM JUST LOOKING FORR FRIENDS .aka i just got treated like crap by my last boyfriend. LOL

Don't get to down on yourself - the last relationship I had was ten years ago - I have been on this site for four years and still haven't been able to find anyone even near enough to me to take out on a date - The ones I would like to date never reply back -I haven't given up yet though...maybe - I should... anyway keep trying - wish you better luck than me...

You seem a very pushy lady talking marriage on a first date. Marriage may be what is wanted by both of you, but most people need several dates to know if things are going to move in that direction with the person involved in my opinion. Take it easy, you could have found out this guy wasn't for you after a few more dates, remember the old saying, "Marry in haste, repent at leisure". Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

It's been multiple different people, multiple different times over a prolonged period of time. The guy who stood me up actually somewhat stood me up a month earlier too. I still haven't met him yet and last time he did something like this, he waited 4 weeks to claim that he was too busy to meet up or even answer my phone calls that day because of his grandmother having health problems. Seems weird that multiple different guys use the grandmother excuse too for never getting back to me. I remember the first time a guy said this to me a day after a very charitable girl begged him to offer to take me to the Valentines Day dance (back in 7th grade) and turns out his grandparent being sick was a lame excuse to not go to the school dance with me (by the way I never got any dates for literally YEARS after that date-that-never-happened).

He claims he wants marriage too though!!!! And im turning 32 and never even given a ring...any girl in my spot would be dying to want eventual marriage! I'd be weird not to!

i'm not buying any of this... do you want to get laid or get married? or are you just crazy?

I want both! A marriage that is sexually active (unlike my last relationship a few yrs ago, where the guy refused sex to me yet ****ed other girls because he has a Madonna wh0re complex). And with my failure rate I will probably go crazy soon. You sound like an insincere dick by thr way

i am, thanks for noticing...and i'm still not buying any of this crap...

I'm sorry to hear that you got stood up. Some guys are just a$$holes.

However, even bringing up the topic of marriage on a first date would be weird. It would also likely scare the other person away.

is that a new pic? i like it!

It is new. Thank you!

you are coming off sounding very desperate and that is a turn off for most men. You also seem to have a very bad temper as demonstrated when you called one of our members an insincere dick just because you didn't like what he said. That was so uncalled for ,so you may want to calm down a bit and lose the attitude.

coming off to me as a attention seeker, nothing more...

Being stood up really sucks. It has happened to me before, so I understand why you're upset. But, it isn't the site's fault. And it isn't the fault of other men. That guy was a jerk. Don't take it out on other men, because they're not all the same.