Im a single dad and i have found that the whole time.same but only different hey.hes now 15 and still the same.where are all the caring old school women.

It might simply be because you're young, and most people around your age don't have kids yet, let alone multiple kids. Guys your age are just starting to branch out on their own and move out of home, so they have the bachelor mentality and are still partying. Even a decent portion of guys in their mid 20s are still this way.

It could also be that guys find it generally trashy to be 22 and have so many kids especially by multiple guys who are nothing more than "baby daddies". Your 3 kids by multiple fathers shows that either you have some sort of major deficiency which makes guys not want to stick around--even when a product of their own DNA is involved--or that you have lousy taste in dudes. It's one thing to be duped or ditched once while having a guy's kid (even that looks bad though, honestly), but 3 separate times?? Guys see the multiple baby daddy thing as emotional drama (the situation itself is dramatic, even if the dads are MIA from your life), trashy, and pathetic. They WILL wonder what is wrong with you to keep becoming a single mom again and again and again.

Then again, it could also be that the kids aren't the issue but that they're just not attracted to you. You appear heavyset and your face isn't really pretty. If you want guys, you have to step it up a few notches . Maybe guys make an excuse about not wanting kids, because it sounds "normal" for a 22 yr old guy to not want to be a step daddy at least at his age, when in reality he thinks you're desperate and not attractive.