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| Topic: Lets see who tells the truth | |
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Before, during, and after
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The title of this thread is puzzling me. It says 'Let's see who tells the truth', assuming that a certain answer is the truth, and any other answer must be bs. How will this woman know whether we're telling the truth? Anywho, I fall for a guy before the sex, but fall for him even harder when we've done the deed. Shy has a point. Each person's truth comes from their own reality. My truth may not be everyone else's but it's who I am. The love, trust, relationship is necessary before considering sexual encounters. I agree with both of you and I guess for me personally, I cannot separate the one from the other in that I have to satisfy a physical need and not have any emotional connection otherwise it is and sounds clinical and cheap. |
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It's different for everyone like sometimes u fall in love then have sex which makes ur relationship & ur feeling for each other stronger & sometimes u have a casual sex then time after time u start to fall in for that person ...
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Love is powerful than sex
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I don't see it being a problem but some of my exs did...I guess that's why there my exs...lol what I see is a wanker....lol 
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I guess that would depend on how fast you choose to have sex or how quickly you fall in love.
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Sex is just one method of expressing love between a man and woman. Sex doesn't initiate love: it's a way of expressing it.
Unfortunately in our society sex seems to be an end-all. Sex to early can damage a possible relationship: and I don't care who disagrees. I've known way to many couples who have sex to early and things die. Oh, it's usually the "let's have sex on the first date" crowd who will challenge me and in the end sex is all they really want. "But we fell in love"! More likely they fell into lust. I'm an avid "wait to see what happens" person: especially for women. |
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Love is different.it is feel of thousand lights on at one time when you feel love against the girl.first of every one wish to spend time with the loved ones.but sex is not equal that is when the man or woman tempted they just enjoy the tempt.just for relief.after that there is nothing. at next few minutes if they see any sexy thing it will repeated.but love comes only when you feel.
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before sex
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It's different for everyone like sometimes u fall in love then have sex which makes ur relationship & ur feeling for each other stronger & sometimes u have a casual sex then time after time u start to fall in for that person ... More sound advice from Mr Married man |
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To be honest, it's probably after for me. That's when I feel that she's my girl. It's really difficult to say what love is though. I've felt broken hearted when a first date with a woman that I had only chatted with on the phone didn't work out. That was ridiculous though. I felt that I knew her but I didn't really.
I'm a bit cautious about getting all loved up with someone that I'm just getting to know and isn't actually my girlfriend yet. Had my heart broken too many times for nothing. Had too many women giving me a load of BS about what a great guy that I am and leading me on. Trust is a two way street and if some woman isn't ready to give herself to me, I'm just going to see how it goes until she does. |
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Definitely after!!
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Also, a lot of people will think that you are just desperate and really clingy if you start acting like you love them when they aren't "yours" yet.
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Sex, the bedroom, private intemacy are under-rated imo. The bedroom is a barometer of the relationship. Love most certainly comes after.
It takes longer to fall in love - in the meantime enjoy yourselves finding out. |
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This is why I've always felt not quite right going to nightclubs with friends. I prefer pubs anyway, as they're more relaxed. Why am I expected to have sex with some guy I hardly know? Are you crazy? Not even alcohol is enough to trick me into having sex with a total stranger. I just find the whole thing quite twisted. Oh yay, can't wait to give my body to someone who doesn't even turn me on. Not
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It's always a good idea to
Try on shoes before you buy them...even out you think they will fit. |
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This is why I've always felt not quite right going to nightclubs with friends. I prefer pubs anyway, as they're more relaxed. Why am I expected to have sex with some guy I hardly know? Are you crazy? Not even alcohol is enough to trick me into having sex with a total stranger. I just find the whole thing quite twisted. Oh yay, can't wait to give my body to someone who doesn't even turn me on. Not . Alright but the question is about whether you have to love them first and not about whether you would just shag a total stranger or somebody that you don't particularly fancy. |
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Do you fall in love before or after you have sex? depends on the woman |
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Why analyze? Just do it.
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To be honest, it's probably after for me. That's when I feel that she's my girl. It's really difficult to say what love is though. I've felt broken hearted when a first date with a woman that I had only chatted with on the phone didn't work out. That was ridiculous though. I felt that I knew her but I didn't really. I'm a bit cautious about getting all loved up with someone that I'm just getting to know and isn't actually my girlfriend yet. Had my heart broken too many times for nothing. Had too many women giving me a load of BS about what a great guy that I am and leading me on. Trust is a two way street and if some woman isn't ready to give herself to me, I'm just going to see how it goes until she does. very well stated!
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