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Topic: Lets see who tells the truth
2ladiesready Joined Tue 03/11/14 Posts: 1	Tue 03/11/14 09:01 PM
before and after. all depends on who you are and the person is and how yall click.

FlaNewbie66 Joined Sun 01/19/14 Posts: 19	Tue 03/11/14 10:17 PM
hmm,, I have been in love twice,, and I believe it I was falling before , during AND after..lol I'd have to agree...i was 20 then....but yes..same thing.

dyophysitism Joined Sun 02/09/14 Posts: 16	Wed 03/12/14 02:30 PM
after

OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Thu 03/13/14 09:06 AM
Well I think that really depends on the circumstances really. Sometimes it comes before and sometimes it comes after. It's like saying which came 1st. " the chicken or the Egg?" Do you fall in love before or after you have sex?

tititemi Joined Tue 02/04/14 Posts: 91	Thu 03/13/14 10:51 PM
Well, as a christian... the Bible itself does not encourage sex before marriage, i'm just 23 and loving each day.. ... i'm keeping that for the man who deserves it... i fall for a man's personality and how he carries himself also his sense of humor and maybe.... looks too... but damn... he's got to be EDUCATED!!!

AkashKumar925 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 1	Fri 03/14/14 12:47 AM
B4

mlaiker Joined Tue 12/17/13 Posts: 2	Fri 03/14/14 05:44 AM Edited by mlaiker on Fri 03/14/14 05:57 AM
I think it depend, If you are making sex with your beloved than each and every moment make you pleasure during sex period. If your sex partner is professional than it is time past only. Love and sex have lot of differences Sex is need of( physical)body where as LOVE is a creation of HEART

OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Fri 03/14/14 08:51 AM
I respect and admire your commitment to God, even though I do not feel the same way myself. Well, as a christian... the Bible itself does not encourage sex before marriage, i'm just 23 and loving each day.. ... i'm keeping that for the man who deserves it... i fall for a man's personality and how he carries himself also his sense of humor and maybe.... looks too... but damn... he's got to be EDUCATED!!!

princess4u2014 Joined Sat 02/08/14 Posts: 34	Sat 03/15/14 06:07 AM
After. Falling in love takes time and im sick of falling for someone who doesn'tfall for me. So I wall up mmy emotions until long after, I.e. when the guy tells me he loves me first. Yes Im jaded and hardened.

OweMy69 Joined Sun 04/20/14 Posts: 4	Sun 04/20/14 03:30 PM
Im addicted to sex...Is that a problem?

OweMy69 Joined Sun 04/20/14 Posts: 4	Sun 04/20/14 03:33 PM
before and after. all depends on who you are and the person is and how yall click.

OweMy69 Joined Sun 04/20/14 Posts: 4	Sun 04/20/14 03:33 PM
I don't see it being a problem but some of my exs did...I guess that's why there my exs...lol

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 04/20/14 03:49 PM
Before. The sec isn't going to happen until we have an emotional connection.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sun 04/20/14 04:23 PM
The title of this thread is puzzling me. It says 'Let's see who tells the truth', assuming that a certain answer is the truth, and any other answer must be bs. How will this woman know whether we're telling the truth? Anywho, I fall for a guy before the sex, but fall for him even harder when we've done the deed.

Maria195 Joined Fri 10/04/13 Posts: 7361	Sun 04/20/14 04:40 PM
Do you fall in love before or after you have sex? during... but i fall out of love a few minutes later... Hum, really Moe?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 04/20/14 08:34 PM
it's hard to say. I don;t think love is like a light switch that suddenly flips on. So I don;t know that I can say at what point I realized that I was "in love." Sometimes I am not sure that I really ever have been

Ladythelma Joined Sat 03/22/14 Posts: 596	Sun 04/20/14 09:08 PM
i don't get to the sex extent without attaching my emotions , hence no casual sex.so before, more during and most after.sad though if he was for caual sex.

lonelyman3036 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 1590	Sun 04/20/14 10:53 PM Edited by lonelyman3036 on Sun 04/20/14 10:54 PM
Love and sex are two totaly different things IMHO. You can have either without the other and still be satisfied. Of course the ultimate choice is to have sex with the one you love. But, for me, the two are not mutualy exclusive.

longboardernew Joined Mon 02/03/14 Posts: 583	Sun 04/20/14 10:57 PM
before

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 04/20/14 11:06 PM
The title of this thread is puzzling me. It says 'Let's see who tells the truth', assuming that a certain answer is the truth, and any other answer must be bs. How will this woman know whether we're telling the truth? Anywho, I fall for a guy before the sex, but fall for him even harder when we've done the deed. Shy has a point. Each person's truth comes from their own reality. My truth may not be everyone else's but it's who I am. The love, trust, relationship is necessary before considering sexual encounters.