Why pick do most women pick to be with one guy or same type of guys if you know their no good to try and change them, and persuade them to be better. But blow off and bypass one that you know seems promising and what you need only yet you continue to throw around assumptions men are no good, you cant find a good man, and etc.

For the same reason some men will do anything for a sexy woman even though she treats him badly - the desire for personal gratification in biological,emotional, psychological and social dimensions is powerful and must all be addressed and not everyone is able to master without a degree of messiness and erroneous behavior... to err is human.....

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This is going to sound crazy, but maybe its possible that her problem is she needs to feel needed, and she sees him as a project, but one she can also love.

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This is a tough one really. Never is it okay to think that you can change someone though. You either love who they are or move on. The only person anyone can change is themselves.

Then there are those that may see certain things as attractive and it is hard to change what you have always liked. Sometimes the person needs to step back and learn to like themselves before beginning a new relationship. Sometimes the loneliness is too much and they fall back into the same old, same old routine.

It is when you mature and realize, that what you get in life is because of your choices, it is time to make different choices. Stepping outside of your own comfort zone is not an easy process for some.

If a woman thinks of a man as being a project, then she is fooling herself.

People change all the time.Its part of growing up. behined every good man is a great women!

This is why a girl I know now lives in alaska the project didnt work out.

YAY!! A nice guy thread! It has been awhile...lol

often these comments are made by men who are rejected for another by a woman they like. so it sound like sour grapes basically. Just because she has chosen someone else does not mean there is anything wrong with him....or her

in the case where you see a gal who really does pick one loser after another....heaven only knows I see guys do that too...pick one barbie doll model, or moody, bossy loudmouth after the other ....get whacked and comes back for more only to complain (to his nice female friends who'd love to date him but maybe do not wear a size 0 and drive a new mustang) that all women are horrible people....can't figure them out either and really don;t care TBH

Psssst: C'mere, I got the stuff right here man...I won't pretend to understand all the psychology involved, but those women just want the attention, sympathy, and "excitement" that come from a bad relationship. That's why they continue in them, or go from one to another - the lady doth protest too much, methinks.

Kinda like a Munchhausen of love...

LOL RF, and right on journey!

I'm going to be cheerleader tonight. Hope nobody objects.

Why thank you Fracus

Think it's cuz they can, or it's cuz their just as indecisive as men can be. Hell, for example. I'm debating on whether or not I wanted to post anymore words that make sense, or just meanderingly start hitting letters to make this post longer.



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