Topic: How do you get to know someone?
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Thu 03/06/14 03:10 PM
Pacific Star, you should write a guide to internet dating :thumbsup: flowerforyou

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Thu 03/06/14 03:11 PM

Effective communication with the person. Research revealed that women tend to reveal their secrets in bed. ;)


Waaaahhoo!!rofl (It isn't easy being cheezy)

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Thu 03/06/14 03:15 PM
communication always helps, but by itself it is easier to be deceived

combining communication with interaction (observing in different environments, and situations, with different people),, is a great way to better know about someone

though we probably never totally know people in any complete fashion, as we are all so complex,,

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Thu 03/06/14 03:30 PM

I would say, if you have an interest in someone, go read
anything/everything they have ever written on the forums.

Lightning enlightening :-)

(You can click on the number beneath their forum
picture to do that.)

is it possible to do that on the mobile site?

mightymoe's photo
Thu 03/06/14 05:10 PM

I would say, if you have an interest in someone, go read
anything/everything they have ever written on the forums.

Lightning enlightening :-)

(You can click on the number beneath their forum
picture to do that.)


yea, this is a good idea also!

dcastelmissy's photo
Thu 03/06/14 05:49 PM


I would say, if you have an interest in someone, go read
anything/everything they have ever written on the forums.

Lightning enlightening :-)

(You can click on the number beneath their forum
picture to do that.)

is it possible to do that on the mobile site?



I can do it on my phone; I have an IPhone but you need to click on the "Full Site" icon at the bottom to be able to clock on their forum posts by the number under their picture. It may be different on other phones. :smile:

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Thu 03/06/14 11:20 PM
Edited by Ɔʎɹɐx on Thu 03/06/14 11:23 PM

I can do it on my phone; I have an IPhone but you need to click on the "Full Site" icon at the bottom to be able to clock on their forum posts by the number under their picture. It may be different on other phones. :smile:


what icon should i click on my phone ? bigsmile




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Fri 03/07/14 04:25 AM


I can do it on my phone; I have an IPhone but you need to click on the "Full Site" icon at the bottom to be able to clock on their forum posts by the number under their picture. It may be different on other phones. :smile:


what icon should i click on my phone ? bigsmile






Easy...just push the button above the word "Transit" on your phone. This will connect you directly with the company who will be happy to send you a complete list of all your posts! laugh laugh :tongue: :angel:

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Fri 03/07/14 07:00 AM
To really get to know someone takes a lot of time. I thought I knew my ex after knowing him since I was 14 and being married to him for 13yrs..If they are willing to give out more information than u ask then generally they are being truthful.. Stay open minded and be a good listener.. If you listen closely you can pick up if he is BS. Ing you just to get in your pants... Lol. Mind games are always a sure sign to back off. If you make a solid effort you will get to know about them in less than a month... Ps. If it's someone close enough to have coffee with or a date make the effort to meet them in person. What do you got to loose??? The more friends you make in life the more fun you will have!!!! Lol.

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Fri 03/07/14 07:04 AM


I can do it on my phone; I have an IPhone but you need to click on the "Full Site" icon at the bottom to be able to clock on their forum posts by the number under their picture. It may be different on other phones. :smile:


what icon should i click on my phone ? bigsmile







How the heck do you take that with you to the mall? In a shopping bag? Lmao.... Good one Fox!

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Fri 03/07/14 07:11 AM
it takes time to get to know someone. it is not going happen here, only. Even reading someone's past posts doesn;t help that much because they are out of context of that past situation and people also "evolve." I want to get to know who you are NOWflowerforyou

Whether you chat on here - that helps
talk on the phone - that helps

meet in person - the only effective way

any or all of those things will help but time is the definitive factor

peeps in a hurry don;t like to hear that

but tis true...is what it is folks :)

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Fri 03/07/14 12:23 PM

Hi TechnoV waving
LOL yes I limited myself by saying close to home because I'm currently carless (boo!) But I realize I'm cutting myself off with that. I'd love to chat : ) and will change that setting. And I like direct. Honesty is a beautiful quality!
No car, that's a drag. I'd offer to give you a lift but considering the cost of fuel and the distance between us it'd be cheaper for me to by you a brand new car.

You like hot wheels right? rofl

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Fri 03/07/14 08:48 PM


Everybody is here to look for meaningful contact, whether that be a romantic relationship, or someone to chat with. How do you get to know somebody? Are there certain things you want to know that you ask directly, or do you beat around the bush to get the feel of a personality (or something in between)?


i beat around the bush, no pun intended... it reveals the true nature of people... people that tell you who they are are usually wrong...


laugh they arent wrong, theyre lying!

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Fri 03/07/14 08:54 PM


Hi TechnoV waving
LOL yes I limited myself by saying close to home because I'm currently carless (boo!) But I realize I'm cutting myself off with that. I'd love to chat : ) and will change that setting. And I like direct. Honesty is a beautiful quality!
No car, that's a drag. I'd offer to give you a lift but considering the cost of fuel and the distance between us it'd be cheaper for me to by you a brand new car.

You like hot wheels right? rofl


u one mean wolfiehuh

lol

like the new photo...what a cutie u are:tongue:

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Fri 03/07/14 08:56 PM
you get to know someone by interaction. you can then determine if you wish to continue the interaction or terminate. the best friend i ever had i couldnt stand the first couple of years i knew them. the worst relationship i ever had is one where we hit it off right away. dont make hasty judgement - unless they come off like a crazy stalker type.

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Fri 03/07/14 08:59 PM

you get to know someone by interaction. you can then determine if you wish to continue the interaction or terminate. the best friend i ever had i couldnt stand the first couple of years i knew them. the worst relationship i ever had is one where we hit it off right away. dont make hasty judgement - unless they come off like a crazy stalker type.



how would u know if they are a crazy stalker type when you first meet?

I take all things 1 day at a time.....saves on mental energy :)

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Fri 03/07/14 09:13 PM
Once you have the person's name and DOB, hire a PI. Let him/her do the grunt work.

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Fri 03/07/14 09:23 PM

Once you have the person's name and DOB, hire a PI. Let him/her do the grunt work.
slaphead

and then she runs off with the PI leaving you with your....corral lol

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Sat 03/08/14 12:37 AM
Just be honest and genuine. Read others comments and profiles and if your interested send them a email, most of the people on the forums are very nice and they will converse with you. Good luck in your search.

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Sat 03/08/14 12:40 AM
I don't have opening lines or anything. I just read their profile and if I have something to say I say it. I don't think you can get to know someone online, I think you have to meet and hang out in person to really get to know one another. For the most part you just need time and patients, the more time you spend with them the better you'll know them.