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| Topic: Go back to Mars the lot of you! | |
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I mean, some guy didn't call you after a date? If that's your question, it could be a lot of things Was it one of your "hot dates", or did you think that it was going to lead to a relationship? That would have been my question. That actually happened to my friend. But you're trying to tell me that you guys think it's normal that after a really good date or chat, to simply not get in touch at all anymore? So you go out with a woman, all is hunky dory, great time, and that's it? No message, nothing? Gotta say it's rather childish to come up with "do you expect a relationship". I guess normal people do expect some respect and common decency though. Before I give a reply to this, I would need to know was it a date or a chat. You are being vague about this. If it is a chat, was it online? If so it happens , it just didn't work. On a date, if you were told there would be another date and then he didn't call again, yes that is rude. I am just guessing. As I said, need more information for a proper response. |
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I mean, some guy didn't call you after a date? If that's your question, it could be a lot of things Was it one of your "hot dates", or did you think that it was going to lead to a relationship? That would have been my question. That actually happened to my friend. But you're trying to tell me that you guys think it's normal that after a really good date or chat, to simply not get in touch at all anymore? So you go out with a woman, all is hunky dory, great time, and that's it? No message, nothing? Gotta say it's rather childish to come up with "do you expect a relationship". I guess normal people do expect some respect and common decency though. Uh, maybe he saw your horns.  
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Well go back to Venus, without a penis then? Ha ha LOL... surprised those lyrics haven't been put in a rap song. |
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I mean, some guy didn't call you after a date? If that's your question, it could be a lot of things Was it one of your "hot dates", or did you think that it was going to lead to a relationship? That would have been my question. That actually happened to my friend. But you're trying to tell me that you guys think it's normal that after a really good date or chat, to simply not get in touch at all anymore? So you go out with a woman, all is hunky dory, great time, and that's it? No message, nothing? Gotta say it's rather childish to come up with "do you expect a relationship". I guess normal people do expect some respect and common decency though. Uh, maybe he saw your horns. OMG is that Julie Newmar??? I used to love her when I was a kid...totally in awe lol 
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First of all remember Cyrstal there is a reason this guy is your ex,maybe he knows how to push your buttons to make you very mad and he enjoys it.Second you have a reason to be mad but you are also smarter and more equipped to handle the problem its obvious you are a good mother.As far as not coming around after a good date or chat I can't explain that it happens to men to. Maybe some people are afraid when they look at a good thing when its right in front of their face.
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I need to ventilate, grmble. Don't get why men simply disappear from the face of the earth after you've had a really good conversation or a date even? Just disappear, not let you know why? Effing w@nkers, the lot of you! I had that happen, a friend of mine, on top of that a mail from my ex basically telling me to take care of something concerning our daughter. He never kept me informed about anything concerning the issue at hand, even though I asked him repeatedly to do so. Now he can't be @r$ed to solve the problem and he simply mails me and basically tells me to do it? FO back to Mars the lot of you! I'm p***ed off.     Isn't it you who always complains about gender bashing? |
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Don't know how most people feel about it but if I chat, date, or have "relationship" with someone and it goes well or badly I don't see I owe them an "autopsy" of it afterwards.
If I accept an invitation yes maybe a polite thank you; but a grade' no. That would be way too much like work. Thank you at the end of a date to the one who hosts , that is just good manners, but if you are expecting a grade because you went well that seems kind of like you have watched to many re-runs of the dating game. The Dud conversations or blah dates I just want to forget it and move on. Sometimes no follow up is like no response it IS a response. Means you have bombed out for one reason or another. Especially if I don't reciprocate. Not like I owe you a refund if I didn't enjoy your company. Or payment if I did. As for the Ex my standing response to partners trying to tell the other how to parent is the only responsibility you have is how YOU parent so shut the well up. If you think you can live with the job with you are doing then just tune them out. If you have to get a restraining order. You don't have to tell the other parent anything except when you are bringing them back. If it is medical or school put it in a note. |
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I need to ventilate, grmble. Don't get why men simply disappear from the face of the earth after you've had a really good conversation or a date even? Just disappear, not let you know why? Effing w@nkers, the lot of you! I had that happen, a friend of mine, on top of that a mail from my ex basically telling me to take care of something concerning our daughter. He never kept me informed about anything concerning the issue at hand, even though I asked him repeatedly to do so. Now he can't be @r$ed to solve the problem and he simply mails me and basically tells me to do it? FO back to Mars the lot of you! I'm p***ed off. Isn't it you who always complains about gender bashing? No, I don't complain about it, I voice my opinion and say I don't like it, and I don't. Doesn't mean I never need to ventilate. I never said I was perfect. First of all remember Cyrstal there is a reason this guy is your ex,maybe he knows how to push your buttons to make you very mad and he enjoys it.Second you have a reason to be mad but you are also smarter and more equipped to handle the problem its obvious you are a good mother.As far as not coming around after a good date or chat I can't explain that it happens to men to. Maybe some people are afraid when they look at a good thing when its right in front of their face. Thank you Jack. I wasn't fully aware until yesterday that I realized I can be manipulated via my kids and/or motherhood. I'm glad my outburst made me aware of that. |
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There is alway a time for diminishing-return for everything and everyone in real life.How you manage it makes you a victor or vanquished
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Doh ... got an email from my ex (father of my kids). Wow. He got a nice email in his inbox now. Not rude, I don't like rude, but strong. F***** if I'm gonna let him walk over me, esp as he's the one who scr***d up as a parent concerning our daughter leaving the country. So if he thinks he can now give me shite for things not working out ... I don't think so!
Unreal that some 13 odd years after the divorce you can end up in a dispute with your 1st ex?? Kids both adults, we moved on with our lives, he's in a relationship, has been for some 6 years I think. I can't even imagine being with him, nor can the kids, as it's been that long ago, haha. And now this? Weird how life can work sometimes. |
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Apparently I am not from mars.
At least according to my sister in law. Just the other day she told me.. " You've got your head up Uranus". |
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That Mars and Venus stuff is nonsense. I never met a girl from Venus, met some that were out there and met some that were out of this world but not Venus specifically.
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That Mars and Venus stuff is nonsense. I never met a girl from Venus, met some that were out there and met some that were out of this world but not Venus specifically. Guess you're not a linguist? Or a Virgo or both, lol |
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Edited by
clintb74
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Sat 02/22/14 02:14 PM
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That Mars and Venus stuff is nonsense. I never met a girl from Venus, met some that were out there and met some that were out of this world but not Venus specifically. Guess you're not a linguist? Or a Virgo or both, lol I don't believe everything that is written in a book or astrology. I don't believe Elvis was kidnapped by aliens either. |
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That Mars and Venus stuff is nonsense. I never met a girl from Venus, met some that were out there and met some that were out of this world but not Venus specifically. Guess you're not a linguist? Or a Virgo or both, lol I don't believe everything that is written in a book or astrology. I don't believe Elvis was kidnapped by aliens either. I just took some pain medication, may have to reevaluate my previous statements. |
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We Melmacians know all about Martians and Venusians.
Male Humans are not Martians. Female Humans are not Venusians. As for Uranus ... well, I won't touch that. 
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We Melmacians know all about Martians and Venusians. Male Humans are not Martians. Female Humans are not Venusians. As for Uranus ... well, I won't touch that. Melmacians may not touch Uranus but it seems Male Humans, and Martians with their probes seem to have an obsession with it. |
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We Melmacians know all about Martians and Venusians. Male Humans are not Martians. Female Humans are not Venusians. As for Uranus ... well, I won't touch that. Melmacians may not touch Uranus but it seems Male Humans, and Martians with their probes seem to have an obsession with it.  Martians probed Uranus?
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Edited by
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Sat 02/22/14 06:51 PM
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We Melmacians know all about Martians and Venusians. Male Humans are not Martians. Female Humans are not Venusians. As for Uranus ... well, I won't touch that. Melmacians may not touch Uranus but it seems Male Humans, and Martians with their probes seem to have an obsession with it. Martians probed Uranus? I don't want to talk about it  
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