My wife is not well.
I have been getting to know another woman.
No sex involved.
I am infermo also. I will see after my sick wife and ChaCha will quida a mi.
She is the healthiest of us three.

I love and adore both women.

What is love, if it's not caring for one and the another?

Esto es como una pel�cula rom�ntica o poes�a hermosa... Su vida le pertenece... a trav�s del amor, todo es bendecido...

That.
And never asking anything in return :-)

So sweet of u leigh!!! But please translate it into english for me!!! Ill be grate ful

This is like a romantic movie.

It's a story of unconditional love.

We ask no more than what we receive.

We give all we have.

IDK it all sounds kinda weird to me...but then so are most romantic movies

Thanks willing for translation

Life is not a movie!!!

Manana viene mi esposa.
Ella tiene que disconsa todo la tarde.
Sabado, voy aser segunda. Sientes bien Ella, vas conmigo.
Domingo, voy a yevarla a ver Su hermano.
Mas tarde vamos con ChaCha y mi Chico Louis.

My wife lives with her kids. She is there in case she dies.
She is coming here Friday for the weekend. She will sleep all Friday until Saturday. If she feels well, she will help me in la segunda.
Sunday, I will take her to visit her brother. Afterwards, we will visit ChaCha, have dinner then, the ChaChas son will come home with me. He has school Monday.

yes I know that long ears....that is kinda what I was saying in a roundabout way

it's the same old philosophical question does art imitate life or does life imitate art?

I say both intimate each other. .. I still need time to understand wat u really meant!!!

well with deference given to respect the values of others even if I do not agree. Willing is saying his situation is like a romantic movie. I am saying that his situation weirds me out a little, that it seems kinda weird but then romantic movies are also usually weird. so it makes sense...is willing's life an imitation of art? (a weird romance movie)?

The only way I can explain it is, both women are in my heart. I love and honor my wife.
I also love and honor ChaCha and her son, Louis.

I don't see how betraying a sick or dying wife is ever romantic. To me it is the epitome of self denigration, selfishness, and cruelty. Just because a wife is too ill or emotionally depleted to fight off an opportunist interloper does not mean Karma will not one day balance the scales.

Anyone who would put either woman and more importantly a child in a triangle does not love either women or the child.

I hope you know I wasn't asking you to explain ... like I feel like that is something you have to do. not at all.

I think it's hard to understand the choices of others sometimes unless we ourselves faced the same choices. what you describe would leave me feeling a little exhausted, I think :)

I am not married, but if I were, I don;t think I could put the next man up to bat while the first batter is still in the box...so to speak..lol

always loved baseball

Your opinion is duly noted.

Willing was close...The translation....For the rabbit....

This is like a romantic film or beautiful poetry ... Your life belongs to you ... through the love, everything is blessed ...

ChaCha isn't a lover. She is the mother of the boy who lives with me.

His dad, her husband died just before Christmas. I met him. I brought his son to see him. Jose Louis had never talked with his boy about his life or who he was. I told the dad it was time. That he would die soon and his son deserved to know his father.

After his death, ChaCha was in shock and denial. She had no one to help manage things.

I have been perfectly honest with my wife in all areas.

My wife and ChaCha Know, I will never abandon Margarita.

ChaCha will help me care for her when she needs it.

I tend to agree about the opportunistic interloper part...strike 'em in the knees :)

It does seem a bit like if someone really loves you they would care for you in a time of need and not have time to be shopping for a replacement....if the love was in fact real

Thank you; it is painful to tell someone you like something you would never expect to have to point out. Somehow I hope it is a wake up call because you will be the one who has to live with your choices. Being a widower is painful enough without regrets.