I must have some major deficiency to be 22, never married, single for years, and unable to even get a goddam date from here. Wtf. IM crazy FORR GIRLFRND. What is so wrong with my profile if I cannot even get fun dates let alone an awesome GIRLFRND??

Maybe you're toooo picky....? Date girls from around ur area, that's easier than dating someone who's far from you, ek s�! Anyway, don't rush love, honey. Love smacks you in the face when you least expect it! So chill, my broer en alles sal reg kom, okay?

Look in the forums list a woman just said the same thing he did.Its a game.

helloooo..there cms me

I've been here for almost 2 years, just go in the forums- let others know you and get to know them! You are still young and the world hopefully won't end tomorrow. I haven't met anyone on here neither-but i have got damn good friends in a lot of States by being here!

Your have to relax you know what women think when they see your post .......... Control

hey...

Yea. I saw it... Still wondering if its a kind of template they used to make the post.

Si le'misior, let me play some sad violin piece for you... "Meditation"

Who am i to say anything but "look at your own post here"! I guess it is for some Women of todays society? But would a decent woman reply? I'm a nobody so disregard this answer"Let a Real Woman steer you straight! Best of luck!!

Yeah, it sucks. I was on here for about two months before I could get a woman to meet me. I've even resorted to chatting up gold diggers that are looking for sugar daddies.

I've been on here for a few months now, and hell I can't even keep friends on here. We'll talk for a bit, then next thing I know when I get on next, they've deactivated their profile. So maybe I'm the one with some sort of deficiency.....oh wait that's right I do have a dysfunction.

If you're so upset that you haven't gotten a date, here, in a month, then you probably have unrealistic expectations, given what we see in your profile.

Your profile picture is a graphic and phrase that could fit on a bumper sticker. People have no idea what you look like. Your profile information does little more to describe you in terms that might get the ladies interested in you, and what on Earth have you done in the past month to make connections?!

First, you need a real picture of yourself. For best results, show your face (including eyes--take off the sunglasses) and a smile. Putting on some nice clothes for the picture would help. Face a good light source and look into the camera lens as the picture is snapped. Selfies are hard to do right, so get a friend to snap some pics. Otherwise, if you're too shy/embarrassed to ask for help, then practice getting shots that make you look good.

Next, your text blurb has to say more than one line, unless you're actually going to make a lot more effort to say the rest. (note: it's spelled "friendship" and not "frndshp") Tell the ladies about yourself. Describe the best about yourself. People don't really want to hang out with depressing losers, so tell them about your accomplishments, and keep it light.

I'm guessing you probably just sat back. Maybe looked at a few ladies' profiles, but rarely winked, or messaged any active members, and expected every last person you even looked at to jump at the chance to meet you--one of thousands of guys on this site--even though they have no idea what you look like, or what to expect from you, when there are countless other guys on this site who have done more.

You need to make a hell of a lot more effort, and don't just rely on this free site. The membership here are, on average, less engaged than on paid sites. Many don't check their email for weeks or longer. If you look closely, you'll probably find the majority of members are like that. Counter this by "nudging" more women. Send many messages to all the women you think you might be interested in, and for best results, focus your attention on the women who have visited within the past month or sooner.

I hope those ideas have helped, but with the meager facts you've presented, I don't know how else to help you. Give it more time. Give it more effort. Don't give up hope.

Good luck!

Im in the same boat. This sounds exactly like something I'd write but reverse gender. I hate this site and I hate men for always rejecting me.

You did make a thread similar to this. Just it got removed from the site for too much vulgarity. Like I said in it, with a name like "Princess" majority of guys instantly think high maintenance and some of us can't afford it.

been here for some time now but i still dont know my way around. can someone pls show me?????

Rome wasnt built in a day and love takes time. Its not something to hurry along..Real Love that is and this is a great sight. You need to learn to use it right.

This is a job for ...

i imagine you get dates, but just can't keep them... i wonder why?

ahh