u go jayme!

Thank you. I was honestly expecting the op to be like... 18.. not 25, that was a bit of shock that she even needed to ask that...

different people view things differently.....

Cause w/age comes wisdom & we know that the shiny always wares off the penny

I must have gained more wisdom some how than most in my age group... or maybe it comes from that fact that I actually listen to my mother once in a while...

and ud better be willing to still adore to be around the snore machine next to u just as much as u did when he was (or still is )prince charming

haha, my snore machine is sawing away behind me... he sounds like a duck...

havnt had one for 9 yrs now

I can never get to sleep until about 2am.. that seems to be when his snoring is settled...or I'm too dead to care...lmao

or getting used to it by now lol

I think that could be too... I do like this moving backwards slowly thing we've got going. Without sex or saying I love you, its like we've been married for 20 years and are slowly rewinding.... its kinda refreshing to try this new approach. I do know that I AM falling in love with him, but I'll never tell... at least not yet.

deffinately...would prefer someone I consider to be by closest confidant rather than my sex toy

exactly. We both are wanting to be married someday, but we've even said to not speak of it on terms of us, just in terms of 'if ever we...' or something. No one is making false promises or jerking the other around. Wellies, I must sign off for tonight before his snoring resumes.

Love to you all!

Jayme

nite!

Back to the subject.

Slow??? 'Mature Adults' are more like snails...

I'm not saying to jump into bed and get married next week. I'm just saying let's speed up the initial conversation a bit...Let's talk about all our good and great attributes we have then head to the closet and let the skeletons out. After that we can decide if its even worth going through anymore conversation.

People do hit it off right away...Yes this does happen...We are only talking here...So lets talk in depth... Many people won't even try. They want this perfect relationship yet are not willing to put forth any effort to find it. Once bitten twice shy??? I've been bitten more than twice...I'm still ready to try again....Life isn't that long people...If you really want something go get it..............

Sometimes fast is good, sometimes its not good...
I like to get to know someone...
But at my age... the snails pace is too slow.

well then, I guess once bitten twice shy applies to me. I got bit a few times and now I'm trying to avoid any fangs...

what up jamie?

ANDY!!!!! Whats up? Hey email me your phone # and I'll call you, I have unlimited ld now...

u've got mail jamie! lol